One of the most under-utilized resources at our disposal to help us bounce back, or to be OK when life isn’t, is baptism. You may think I am overstating its importance or value in your life, but I would respond by asking how well you rate yourself at being OK when life isn’t. If your answer is anything less than a perfect score, isn’t it at least worth considering how your baptism could play a bigger role in helping you be OK when life isn’t? If so, and if we’re going to leave today with a clearer understanding of and a deeper appreciation for our baptism, we must first start with His.
Here’s something rather fascinating about Jesus’ baptism: it is one of the very rare events in Jesus’ life and ministry that is recorded in all four Gospels. The Gospels – Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John – are the books of the Bible that record Jesus’ words and works for us. Now then, to put it into perspective, I think we’d all agree that Christmas – Jesus’ birth – is a pretty big deal, right? You know how many of the Gospels cover Jesus’ birth? Two. Just two. So, without reading too much into it, can we agree that at the very least, an event in Jesus’ life that is covered by all four of the Gospels is deserving of our attention?
If ever there was reason make a big deal of something or to have a high-end ceremony, it might be Jesus’ baptism. But what is recorded couldn’t be more unceremonious. The angels who announced Jesus’ birth are not lined up along the Jordan announcing his baptism. Crowds weren’t flocking to Jesus to witness his baptism; rather, he was a part of the crowds flocking to John to hear his message first-hand and be baptized. John himself was not dressed in some ornately flowing robes, rivaling the pomp of a pope, but rather primitive animal skins. The setting stands out in its stark simplicity.
The simple setting itself wasn’t the only surprise; the matter of why Jesus was even being baptized in the first place added to the surprise even more. Mark detailed for us that those coming to him to be baptized were “confessing their sins,” an activity in which the sinless Son of God could not participate – he had no sin to confess! John even expressed his confusion, asking, “I need to be baptized by you, and do you come to me?” (Mt. 3:14). What business did Jesus have participating in a practice meant for sinners?
Ah, and that last phrase captures it: “meant for sinners.” Jesus and baptism have something in common in that regard: they are both meant for sinners. Baptism was given for sinners, and as we were just again reminded at Christmas, Jesus came for sinners. It wasn’t his own personal need that prompted his baptism; it was yours and mine. Jesus responded to John’s confusion by saying, “It is proper for us to do this to fulfill all righteousness” (Mt. 3:15). Being righteous meant that Jesus was to carry out the Father’s will. What’s more, imagine how awkward it would have been before Jesus’ ascension if he had commissioned his church to make disciples by baptizing and teaching, while he himself had not carried out the very directive! So in being baptized, Jesus was doing the right thing as our perfect Substitute.
And now let us zero in on the detail of Jesus’ baptism which must always stick with us if our own baptism is going to serve as the stuff that has real substance to be OK when life isn’t; to bounce back when everything and everyone else may fall apart. That detail happens immediately following Jesus’ baptism. “As Jesus was coming up out of the water, he saw heaven being torn open…” (v.10). Now I wasn’t there, but stop and consider how jaw-dropping it must have been to see heaven “torn” open! Was there a seam that split in the skies? Was it as if a curtain had been peeled back for just a moment?
Even more amazing than the physical occurrence was the spiritual significance of what was going on. To appreciate it, go back to the Garden of Eden after Adam and Eve’s sin. God sent them out of the garden and had it guarded by angels with flaming swords. See what sin had done! It had literally separated man from God! God used to walk in the garden with Adam and Eve, but after the bombshell of sin dropped on our world, so did separation from God. But now look what was happening! Jesus was on the scene. The holiness of heaven was split open. Hope was being restored for a restoration and reconciliation between God and men in the person and work of Jesus Christ. Our sin separated a fallen world from a holy heaven, but Jesus coming onto the scene was about to change that forever. And the exclamation point on all of it? That was in what happened next.
Then the Father spoke – and do not let his words fall on deaf ears this morning. He proclaimed to Jesus, “You are my Son, whom I love; with you I am well pleased” (v.11). Psychologists have studied the impact that parental approval – or lack thereof – can have on the development of children. Some children struggle well into adulthood because they never felt they had either one or both of their parents’ approval. They always fell short and never lived up to their expectations. It can drive us to prove ourselves in unhealthy ways as adults while still striving to achieve approval from parents. And it isn’t just family. It’s friends. It’s the workplace. It’s social media followers and likes. We constantly crave approval.
And here, on this divine day in the desert, the Father gives his full approval to his Son. Not only does he pour out his Father’s heart, verbalizing his love, but he also expresses the delight, the pleasure, the pride he has in Jesus. Let there be no doubts about Jesus’ calling and credentials to serve as the Savior! The Father himself approves, giving consent with his own voice to Jesus and the work of salvation that he was born to carry out. The Father approves!
Friends, the Father approves. The Father approves. The words he spoke at Jesus’ baptism live on in our own baptism. THAT is why Jesus’ baptism matters – it is what makes ours matter!
Siblings help us understand the connection between Jesus’ baptism and our own. If there is one thing we can count on when raising kids, it’s that siblings will be absolutely determined to do everything in their power to make sure they get what their sibling got. Go ahead and throw any rational or logical thinking out the window. “If my brother got it, then I should get it. If my sister got it, then I should get it.” They will not be shortchanged. They will not be slighted. They will get what their siblings got, and will whine and complain and fuss until it happens.
Stated positively, that is exactly what we receive in baptism – we get what Jesus, our brother, got: the Father’s approval. The Second Lesson today from Romans helped explain how that happens. “Or don’t you know that all of us who were baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death? We were therefore buried with him through baptism into death in order that, just as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, we too may live a new life” (Romans 6:3-4). The point is that baptism binds us to the blessings Jesus won for us. Jesus suffered and died for our sins and through baptism we died that death. That means there is no more punishment for our sins – the death penalty has already been served! But Jesus didn’t stay dead; just as he was raised from the dead, our baptism means that we have been raised to a new life.
Do you know what comes with that new life because of the blessings bound to our baptism? The Father’s approval! It is as if we can take the very words the Father spoke to the Son at his baptism and insert our first name: “You [name] are my son/daughter, whom I love; with you I am well pleased” (v.11). This isn’t just fluffy church talk or spiritually sappy stuff – baptism in Jesus is the assurance that the Father loves you and that he is pleased, thrilled, delighted with you!
And the love he has for you and the delight he has in you is not performance-based. It isn’t because you managed to impress him or win his favor by anything you ever did. But neither does your track record disqualify you! That means he isn’t waiting for you to right all your wrongs, as if any of us ever could. It means that no matter what you did in the past, no matter how much you’ve convinced yourself it’s beyond forgiveness, or how much others have condemned you, baptism even washes away that past. So if no such sin any longer separates us from God, as Adam & Eve’s cast them out of Eden apart from him, then you have God’s approval. Jesus’ baptism, life, death, and resurrection, made that possible. And your baptism guarantees it.
So if you want to be OK when life isn’t, remember to bounce back to your baptism. Remember that it isn’t just some event that happened in the past, but it’s who you are. That day was not just the day on which you were baptized, but on that day and every day after, you were set apart as a baptized child of God, bought and paid for with the blood of Jesus. As a baptized child of God, the Father approves.
You don’t have to try to please everyone to get their approval. You don’t have to be the best at your job to get recognition from your boss. You don’t have to be more like that parent so your kids think you’re the greatest. You don’t have to buy this or own that to seek out validation. Stop feverishly chasing from others what you already have from the Father: approval. After all, whose opinion of you matters more – theirs, or His? He has already spoken. He is pleased. The Father approves. Jesus and your baptism guarantee it.