DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Not Keep My Faith Hidden

Gracious Savior,
Many in our world today are not receptive to Christians and are even hostile to us. While such animosity shouldn’t surprise us, since you repeatedly warned us to expect it, such dislike and disdain are still relatively new for us as a nation. For generations, our country has either embraced the Christian faith or at least welcomed its moral and upright teachings. Now, as believers who may face more pushback for vocalizing our beliefs, we may be more inclined to keep quiet or keep our faith below the radar. While we may confidently – and even overzealously! – vocalize our political views that are shaped by our faith, we lack the same courage when it comes to vocalizing our faith itself. We fear pushback for our faith, but not for our social or political views. Help us turn that around, Lord, not that we need to withhold our personal views or opinions on matters, but that we have the same confidence – and even greater confidence! – to boldly confess what we believe and shamelessly point others to the peace, hope, and joy found in you alone.  

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Stay Connected to Family

Loving Father,
When we are part of a healthy family, those relationships can be among the most meaningful we can ever experience. Unfortunately, we can also very easily take them for granted. When we get caught up in our daily routines, we can go days or weeks without any communication with those we cherish. We are naturals at chalking up everything to being “too busy,” but deep down, we know it’s really a matter of priorities. Help me to be more deliberate about staying connected with my family, whether that includes aging parents, adult children, or siblings that mean so much to me. Even a phone call or quick text can help us feel more connected, and neither one requires a significant time commitment. Guard me from getting caught up in the silliness of who takes the initiative in reaching out, and make me always willing to reach out first as often as it takes, since I’m so grateful for the family with which you’ve blessed me. Strengthen our bond through more frequent communication, and enable us to make the most of the blessing of family.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Grow in and Through Prayer

Abba Father,
Help us pray. While we rest securely in your perfect life of righteousness that is credited to us by faith, we also look at your holy life and feel so small and inadequate. You did all things not just well, but flawlessly – including prayer. We struggle with knowing what to pray for, with finding the right words to pray, and with aligning our wishes with your will. Enlighten us through your Word with a deeper understanding of prayer, inform our prayers with your Word, and through that same Word, awaken in us a burning desire to fill more of our days with time spent in prayer. Through your Spirit, establish robust and healthy prayer habits in our lives and in the lives of all believers. Let our victory in Jesus be the source of our bold confidence in approaching your throne of grace at all times and in every situation.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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As We Remember Our Veterans

Servant Savior,
On this day, our nation recognizes with grateful appreciation the service of our veterans. How can we ever adequately express our thanks to so many who were willing to put so much on the line to defend our great nation and all of its freedoms? We thank you for the fine example of selfless service our veterans provide, as well as their humble willingness to put themselves under the authority of others for the greater good. Grant your blessing and favor on our veterans and their families. Let them be treated with honor, respect, and dignity, not just today, but always. Let us also show them compassion in how we provide for them, striving to give them the best possible care and treatment they require. Give our leaders wisdom and discernment as they give consideration to how they ask our brave military men and women to serve, so they avoid unnecessarily putting them at risk or in danger. Lead them to highly value the lives of these special service men and women entrusted to their care. Always remember our veterans, Lord, and see that we don’t ever forget them either. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For the Animal Kingdom

Thoughtful Lord,
You have richly blessed us by filling the earth with so many wonders and curiosities. Near the top of that list is the animal kingdom, which you called Adam to rule over and to name. Thank you for the fascinating uniqueness and spectacular variety of animals, wild and domesticated. We appreciate the joy of simply observing majestic wildlife in its element, as well as the ability to study and learn how animals live and survive. Many know the bond of pet ownership, by which you can bring a special love and companionship for individuals and families to experience. We are grateful for the ways specially trained animals can serve, guide, and protect those with special needs on a daily basis. We also thank you for the many ways animals provide food for our sustenance and enjoyment. As overseers of all that you have created, in gratitude for the various ways you bless us through them, help us to protect and care for all your creatures as we are able. May we continue to delight in them as you use them to enrich our lives. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Good Listening in Marriage

Patient Lord,
Many of the issues that arise in marriage are negatively impacted by – if not caused by – miscommunication. Since one of the leading contributors to miscommunication is failing to listen well, help spouses give attention to this essential element of good communication. The longer couples have been married, the easier it can be for one spouse to presume s/he knows what the other is going to say. When that is the case, the skill of active listening is skipped by the spouse who has begun internally formulating a response. Give husbands and wives the loving respect for each other to commit to listening attentively when the other is speaking. Help them reflect this by eliminating any distractions that might hinder good listening or even give a partner the impression s/he isn’t being heard. Let patience be the norm in this area as spouses work to improve, and bless their marriage with deeper understanding and connection as a result.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Those Bearing the Burden of Guilt

Heavenly Father,
Sundays are sacred. Since we cannot read hearts, we could never assess the layers of guilt people bring with them into your house on any given week. We know our guilt and shame all too well, and any effort at seeking relief will always fail until we end up at the same place: Christ’s cross. Only there do we see the price Jesus paid in full to cancel our debt of sin – and the guilt and shame that accompany it. Therefore, let Christ crucified and risen be clearly proclaimed in worship everywhere on this day, so that guilty consciences and shame-saturated hearts may find genuine peace and rest. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Those Hurting Financially

Gracious Lord,
We live in a very prosperous nation, yet many are struggling financially. In some cases, poor financial decisions, unnecessary debt, and consumerism have contributed significantly to financial hardships. In other cases, rising costs, low income, and special needs also factor into the equation. Meet the needs of those who are struggling in the way that you know is best for them. When that help includes education, make it available. When accountability is needed, grant it. When financial assistance is necessary, move generous hearts to provide it as they are able, and to do so in ways that bless – and not enable – those in need. All that we have belongs to you, and you entrust your resources to us to manage well and to help those in need whenever possible. Guide our hearts to do so. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Those Dealing with Betrayal

Merciful Lord,
The pain of betrayal is a unique wound. We are not surprised when those who have openly expressed their dislike of us or our enemies hurt us, but being betrayed stings differently. When we extend our trust to an individual or an organization, we assume certain understandings and agreements are in place. When we give our word, we take seriously our responsibility to keep it, and we expect those we trust to do the same. So when that bond of trust is broken, or that word isn’t kept, it leads us to question the relationship altogether. Furthermore, it can cause us to rethink other relationships or pull back in isolation, resulting in our reluctance to trust others in the future.

Sadly, Lord, you are no stranger to betrayal. Not only did you experience it at the hands of those disciples you trusted while here on earth, but you experience it daily when we turn against you in sin. Yet, in your faithful mercy, which can always be trusted, you don’t turn away from us, but always forgive. Let that joyful reality ease the pain, the hurt, and the anger of all those who right now are feeling bowled over by betrayal.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Be a Godly Neighbor

Dear Jesus,
Help me to be the neighbor my neighbor needs. In order for that to happen, I have to connect with real people. I have to know my neighbors. I have to spend time with them. I have to be familiar with their stories and their situations and their struggles. Only then do I become aware of the ways God may have brought us together in order for me to be a blessing to them. Shift my focus from self-concern and self-absorption to caring more about others, and loving and serving them. Give me the courage to engage others, the foresight to allow for flexibility and margin in my schedule, and the willpower to deliberately disconnect from screens, so that I am well prepared to be the godly neighbor my neighbor needs.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen.