DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Care for Your Gifts of Body and Life

Holy Father,
The Ten Commandments are intended to be a blessing, not a burden. You have given us the precious gift of life, as well as marvelous bodies to carry out your will and your work in this world. While your grace and mercy compel us to protect your gift of life and to care for it, so often my own selfishness puts my body and life and the bodies and lives of others at risk. I neglect the care of my own body, disregarding what I eat, and making choices that put my health at risk. My body is a temple, and I dishonor you when I fail to properly care for it. And, while I may never have taken anyone’s life physically, since you view hatred toward others on the same plane as murder itself, I am guilty. 

You, on the other hand, valued life so much that you gave up the life of your only Son for the lives of all others. Having been spiritually raised up from the dead to this new life, now give me that same appreciation for life and the opportunities you give me to care for and to protect my own life and the lives of others. Help me to see and to embrace all the ways I can honor and serve you and others with my body and life.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Stay Focused

Dear Father,
There are so many distractions in this world that make it more challenging than ever just to stay focused. Some of these distractions are my own fault, while others are the product of living in such a distracted world. So much around me is vying for my attention, and too often I succumb and give in. It can be frustrating when I can’t accomplish the task at hand because I struggle to stay focused. 

Guard me from the weakness of permitting distractions as a means of procrastination. Help me identify possible distractions and give me the discipline to remove them whenever I need to focus. Where helpful, give me the wisdom to break down bigger tasks into smaller steps so that my need to focus is more manageable. Bless my progress by allowing me to see and to celebrate the results achieved through my focused efforts.  

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Appreciate Discipline

Gracious Father,
No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but later on it produces a harvest of righteousness (cf. He. 12:11). When I am in need of correction or rebuke, thank you for placing others in my life who are willing to provide it. As hard as it might be to receive, help me accept it with open ears and a humble spirit. Provide me with the insight and awareness to see the good that you intend to come through it. 

When your discipline involves times of trial or testing, give me the patience to bear up under it and the perseverance to endure. When I struggle to see the potential blessings during these seasons of life, strengthen my grip on your promise to produce righteousness on the other side of such discipline. Remind me that just as a caring father disciplines his children, so do you, my loving Father, discipline me, your son. Thank you!

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

The Bread of Life: Dine or Dash?

(John 6:51-69)

What are the most terrifying words in the Bible? You might think of Jesus’ teaching about hell and weeping and gnashing of teeth, where he describes a place and experience that we would not wish on even our worst enemy. You may have your own section of Old Testament Bible History that has always left you unsettled or uneasy. Maybe snippets of Paul’s letters come to mind, sections where he describes in detail some of the suffering and hardships he endured as a result of his faith.

I would like to add a verse from John 6 to the list of terrifying words in the Bible. It’s right there in verse 66. “From this time many of his disciples turned back and no longer followed him.” What is it about that verse that is so terrifying? I would point to the word “disciples.”

You see, it would be much more palatable if John had informed us that those who turned back were those who were searching or questioning and no longer followed. Or if those who turned back were those who were on the fence about Jesus. Or hypocrites. Or unbelievers.

But John doesn’t use any of those terms. Instead, he uses the word “disciple.” In other words, these were individuals who had, up to that point, chosen to follow Jesus. And then sadly, these are the same ones who at this point made the conscious decision to stop following Jesus. 

I wonder… might there be some reading this very post who have chosen a similar path, or are possibly dangerously close to doing so? There was a time in the past when Jesus and his church were a central part of your life. Maybe as a child growing up in a church-going home. Possibly as a teenager or young adult active in a local church’s youth ministry. Or you came to faith later in life as an adult. 

But then something happened. I suppose in many cases it wasn’t some big event, but rather a slow drifting away. Let’s also acknowledge, though, other scenarios that did leave their mark. A humiliating or even traumatic experience. A big change at church that was the straw that broke the camel’s back. A false teaching – or maybe just an offensive one. Whatever it was, that was the point when you, one of his disciples, turned back and no longer followed him. Or for others, perhaps that point hasn’t yet come, but it’s right around the corner for you if something doesn’t change.

So there are still many today who would fall into the category John was describing of those who turned back and no longer followed Jesus. That response prompted Jesus to ask if his Twelve disciples had similar intention; if they too, were planning to walk away.

Peter, always the vocal one, hit a home run with his response. “Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life. We have come to believe and to know that you are the Holy One of God” (v. 68-69). There is nothing terrifying about that response! Peter was listening to the same Bread of Life teaching that the others had heard, and to him, going elsewhere wasn’t even an option. It would have been ludicrous to do so when the source of eternal life itself was standing right before him!

Let’s take note of two general responses to Jesus’ teaching. The first reply from many of the disciples was, “This is a hard teaching. Who can accept it? (v.60). But Peter said he had “come to believe and to know that [Jesus is] the Holy One of God” (v.69). Even as drastically different as those two responses were, neither one argued that Jesus’ teaching was unclear. No one said it was confusing. No one claimed it was too complicated and that they needed help understanding it. No, they said it was “hard.” 

What was hard about it? It was hard because Jesus was saying that in eating him, in dining on the Bread of Life, he is to be our greatest priority. He is to come before all else in our lives.

It was hard because the Jesus who is about grace and love and compassion… is the same Jesus who has something to say to us about how we should live, how we should manage money, who we should sleep with, how much we can drink, how we should forgive those who wrong us, etc.

It was hard to let go of all other preconceived ideas of what religion or getting right with God was all about. It was hard because all of those in some capacity involved our effort or participation.

But Jesus’ teaching shot all of that down! Jesus said, “Nope. Just me. I’m all you need. Let go of your pride that insists on knowing better than I do what is best for your life or earning your own way or that you are somehow in a more deserving category than someone else. Put all of that behind you and see that I alone am the way to eternal life. All me. Only me. Not you.” See, that isn’t complicated or complex!

But it is hard. 

Not to Peter, though. To Peter, it was easy. And, if you’ve been listening to what Jesus has been saying in this whole teaching in John 6, one of the most worthwhile teachings of Jesus to wrestle with, it was reasonable. It was logical. It made perfect sense. 

Does it surprise you that faith could be described in those ways? Peter wasn’t overthinking things. He listened to Jesus and applied what Jesus was saying. If one listens to what Jesus says about himself, the claims he makes, the invitation he extends, Peter actually drew the most logical conclusion. If any of Jesus’ words had any merit, then it would be crazy for anyone to dismiss him and turn somewhere else. To draw any other conclusion about Jesus’ words, one would have had to be willing to have Jesus admitted to a mental hospital as someone struggling with multiple personality disorder or who had clearly lost his mind. Because Jesus’ teaching is not complicated or complex.

But it is hard. 

Until faith comes into the picture. Jesus said it this way: “‘The Spirit gives life; the flesh counts for nothing. The words I have spoken to you—they are full of the Spirit and life.’ He went on to say, ‘This is why I told you that no one can come to me unless the Father has enabled them’” (vs.63 & 65). Yes, faith in Jesus is reasonable. It is logical.

But it is also a gift, a gift that can be received only through the Holy Spirit, only when in humble submission I set aside my arrogance and let Jesus be who he claims to be in my life: my only Savior from sin and my only assurance of eternal life.

When by faith I know that Jesus, the Jesus who forgives all sin and welcomes with open arms all who know they need him, the Jesus who loves unconditionally and loves harder than anyone else, when that Jesus is the focus of my faith and the bedrock of my belief, that which seemed to be so hard becomes much easier. 

One of those challenging elements of faith in Jesus that becomes easier to grasp is how faith in Jesus relates to the role of his church. A gap has grown in recent years between the perception people have of Jesus and the perception they have of the church. Regardless of how familiar they are with him or how well they know him, people still tend to have a very positive opinion of Jesus. His church, however, has not sustained that same image. What used to be viewed as a respected and appreciated institution, one that played a pivotal role within communities, has seen its once favorable reputation steadily decline.

This is sad. Why? Because too often it has been justified.

When an institution, and more directly priests or pastors like me, betray a trust and abuse it for selfish and even sinister motives, shame on us. When we as Christians have by our own words and actions earned the reputation of dismissing or diminishing society’s neglected, the marginalized, victims of injustice, or anyone in need, shame on us. When Christians are more concerned about chastising than charity, shame on us. When we as Christians have hypocritically stood in judgment of certain sins while cozying up to other sins, shame on us. When we as Christians have cared about protecting an established institution more than proclaiming the good news of Jesus’ peace, hope, and salvation to the lost and condemned, shame on us.

But, if we can be honest and transparent enough to own those sins, can we also be honest and transparent enough to admit that the church’s reputation isn’t always tarnished because it does the wrong thing; sadly, it also happens when the church, when Christians, are doing the right things.

When Christians firmly stand on the teachings of Jesus even when his teachings aren’t popular, good for the church. When the church recognizes that its responsibility is to govern God’s kingdom with God’s Word, and lets the secular government govern the worldly kingdom with the laws of the land, realizing those two very different purposes, good for the church. When the church rightly realizes the good news of Jesus is for all people, regardless of how different we all are or how uncomfortable others may make her feel, good for the church.

When the church is doing those things, good for the church. And if the reputation of the church continues to decline when it is carrying out its work properly, the problem isn’t with the church, but with those who insist on being offended by her. When that happens, there is no place for pretending to hold to Jesus while rejecting her church, because the two are inseparable. The church is the body of Christ. And to be offended by the church carrying out her business as Jesus calls her to, is to be offended by Jesus himself. 

Did you catch Jesus calling that out in his dialogue? He asked the question in a very straight forward manner. “Aware that his disciples were grumbling about this, Jesus said to them, ‘Does this offend you?’” (v.61). Look how ahead of his time Jesus was! In this day and age, where everyone is concerned about being offended and giving offense, Jesus would fit right in!

But it wasn’t Jesus’ church that had done anything wrong when he asked the question; it was his own teaching that came from his own lips. So Jesus acknowledges that even when his words are proclaimed and his teachings continue to be passed on, even by imperfect Christians like us and imperfect pastors like me, there will still be be those who are offended. 

So let us consider this: will you be one of them? Will you be so offended by Jesus, who by his perfect life, death, and resurrection in your place and in mine, claims to be your Savior? Will his teaching that you and I are sinners in need of his salvation so offend you that you, like many of the disciples at the close of Jesus’ teaching, turn away from him, perhaps even attempting to draw less attention to it by claiming that it’s his church you’re turning away from, and not him? 

Or, will you, as Jesus invites all of us to do, continue to draw closer to him by feeding ourselves the Bread of Life, by filling up with more – not less – of Jesus through his Word? His promises and blessings are assured for all who choose not to dash, but to dine on the Bread of Life. If that is your choice, please realize that is precisely why congregations exists. It is exactly what we are here to do: help each other nourish our faith with the Bread of Life. 

Suppose you were on an expedition with a group of highly trained professionals. This expedition put your life at risk. At every stage, at every turn, there are dangers that threaten not only your physical health, but your very life. Imagine that one of those threats catches you off guard and you somehow are separated from the rest of the expedition.

At that point, what are your feelings about the rest of the group in the expedition as it relates to your specific situation threatening you? Do you hope that the expedition forges ahead without you, plugging onward to carry out the mission, and that hopefully you’ll eventually get yourself out of your sticky situation and catch up with the rest of them? Or, do you hope and pray that they quickly discover you’re not with them, backtrack on a brief search and rescue mission, and eventually come to your aid?

I’ve just described for you one of the tremendous blessings of belonging to a local congregation. Our congregation is not a community of comparison. We are not here to stand in judgment of others or diminish those who aren’t where we are in our walk of faith.

We are an expedition, navigating our way together through an ever-challenging world that has far more risky and dangerous threats than any earthly adventure; the kind that can damage our soul and compromise our eternity. And it makes all the difference to know that I am surrounded by those who will drop everything for a search and rescue mission when any one of us is threatened. There are many things in the world that are terrifying; Jesus’ church should not be included among them. 

We’ve considered some of the most terrifying words of the Bible; let me now close with some of the most comforting. There are so many of them, but let’s be sure to include these words of Jesus himself: “I am the living bread that came down from heaven. Whoever eats this bread will live forever. This bread is my flesh, which I will give for the life of the world” (v.51). Feast on Jesus, the Bread of Life, and you have nothing to fear.

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Consider the Influence of Others

Dear God,
Grant me wisdom in choosing the types of people I want to spend time with regularly. As I consider the type of man I want to be, help me identify others who share the attributes and qualities I wish to emulate. Since growing in my faith is an ongoing desire, being influenced and encouraged by others with that same desire is a priority. I also want to be challenged and pushed to grow and pursue personal development. And, in the same way that I wish to be positively influenced by others, use me as strong role model and positive influence for others. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Grow in Christian Living

Gracious Lord,
When it comes to my knowledge of Christianity, while there is always room to grow, I am thankful for being quite knowledgeable about the Bible. However, when it comes to putting it into practice in my daily life, it is a struggle! Send your Holy Spirit to help me live what I know, since Christian teaching and Christian living go hand in hand. Guide my thoughts and actions to reflect the truths of your Word. Where I struggle with a mismatch between the good that I know and want to do with the bad stuff I keep on doing, lead me to repentance and refresh my guilty conscience with forgiveness. Renewed and restored, align my daily walk with your divine Word, so that I reflect your light as brightly as ever in this dark world. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Speak Up for Others

Dear Lord,
Keep me from giving into the temptation to join others when they are badmouthing someone. Help me instead to speak up for those who are not present to defend themselves when their names and reputation are being shot down and slandered. I don’t ever want to be the reason others may think less of someone. Use me to build up even when others tear down. Mark my speech with kind and uplifting words about others. Give me the confidence to discourage others from gossip and slander whenever it arises. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For the Faith of Those on the Fringe

Heavenly Father,
Sundays are sacred. Multitudes who belong to you will gather together in your house for worship to be fed the Bread of Life. Sadly, some among them are on the fringe when it comes to their faith. They’ve questioned. They’ve struggled. It may have been some specific incident that caused it or a doctrine or teaching that offended. Whatever it is, Lord, Satan is ready to pounce and deal them the eternal death blow. 

But they belong to you, and since you promise not to snuff out a smoldering wick or break a bruised reed, I boldly ask you to use their time in your house this morning to help keep that promise. Use a timely word heard as the Bible is read or as it is proclaimed in the sermon, a touching phrase from a hymn, or some other relevant application of your Word in their life to provide exactly what they need. Guard and protect them as precious sheep of your flock, and authoritatively dismiss the devil with the reminder that he cannot claim those who are yours. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Honor Those in Authority

Holy Father,
The Ten Commandments are intended to be a blessing, not a burden. Nevertheless, since they expose my sin, I naturally bristle before them. How true this is when you remind me that you have placed others in authority over me! Although you intend those over me to be a blessing, submission doesn’t come naturally to me. Forgive me for my overconfident arrogance that presumes to know better than those you have placed over me.

Those in positions of authority in the government, the workplace, the church, and the home, are your representatives. Lead me to show them honor and respect, both directly and indirectly. Show me ways I can support them in their work. Let me reflect thankfulness to you and to them for their service through my obedience. Prompt me to pray for them regularly. Use them to bless and prosper many, and in any way possible, benefit your kingdom work in the process. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Those Governing

Loving Lord,
You encourage us to pray for our leaders of church and state, so I ask you to guide and direct all those holding offices of high trust at ever level in our government. Thank you for their hard labor and for their desire to represent constituents and citizens well. Guard them from being influenced by outside agendas and any corruption. Help them remain steadfast in their moral standards and conduct their responsibilities ethically. Surround them with wise counsel that seeks to serve the best interests of as many people as possible. Bless their dedicated work and watch and keep their families while they carry it out. Use them to govern our country in a way that prioritizes providing the necessary care for and discipline of our own citizens, and after that to offer any prudent help and aid to other nations as possible.  

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen.