DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Imitate Jesus

Dear Jesus,
The more I know about you, the more I want to be like you. Your words and actions are a breath of fresh air in a me-minded world that so easily overlooks the needs of others. When I look at the behaviors of the world, I see so much that is lacking. Sadly, the same is true when I look in the mirror.

In thankfulness for the perfect life of obedience you lived in my place, allow my gratitude to influence my attitude. When my attitude is in alignment with your Word, transform my behavior to reflect it. Shape and mold me into your likeness, so that I become a clearer reflection of you as I walk in your footsteps. I want to be intentional about standing out in this dark world as a bearer of your light. Grant me your Spirit, not only to know your will, but to carry it out more and more. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

The Best Bread

(John 6:24-35)

There are a lot of good things to be said for being more aware of our diet and nutrition in America, of having a better sense of what is going into our bodies and what effects certain ingredients have on us. However, such awareness is not without its consequences. One of those is that we end up taking the results of this study or that headline to the extreme when it comes to either the positives of negatives of a certain ingredient or type of food. So, rather than approaching food sensibly, in moderation one direction or the other, we go to extremes. We either over-do it on this miracle superfood that promises to help us live to 120, or we completely eliminate something that an “expert” warned could send us to an early grave if we have too much of it. One of the victims of our health-conscious, carb-cutting culture has been bread. We order our burger without the bun. We scoop our bagels. We don’t eat the crusts on the pizza.

That general perception in our culture that bread is nothing more than extra, unnecessary carbs could have a negative impact on our understanding of the imagery Jesus used in his teaching from John chapter 6. We may not as easily relate to the main point Jesus is trying to emphasize by using bread as his focal point, which is simply that bread represented a dietary staple. 

In Jesus’ day, and still today in many places all over the world, where Grub Hub or Door Dash don’t exist to bring directly to your door any delicacy or delight you crave at any given time, bread is essential. It represents one of the most basic needs in life. Elsewhere in his teaching, Jesus does the same thing in comparing himself to water; it is a basic need for life. So even though we may go days or weeks so much as a crumb of carbs, don’t let that conceal the main truth of Jesus’ teaching: just as bread is a basic need for life, so also – albeit on a much grander scale – is Jesus!

As we listen to Jesus teach, certainly we wouldn’t question his teachings on salvation or eternal life. After all, where would we expect to find a more qualified expert to speak and teach on salvation than the Savior himself? When Jesus speaks on the matter of forgiveness and salvation, we listen and believe, because he is the authority on the subject. 

But let’s also realize something else about the authority and author of our salvation: if he is the expert on such things, then wouldn’t he also be the most qualified to warn us about the most dangerous threats to salvation? In other words, Jesus’ warnings are not just fringe possibilities or long shots to forfeit our salvation, but are in fact the most serious threats of which we need to be aware. So let us listen to Jesus, not only when he speaks of the stuff of eternal life, but also when he warns us about that which seeks to rob us of it.

In the first part of Jesus’ Bread of Life discourse, we see quite clearly the warning Jesus provides. “Do not work for food that spoils, but for food that endures to eternal life, which the Son of Man will give you” (v.27). Here is the question with which we are forced to wrestle if we want to appreciate all of Jesus’ teaching: are you working for food that spoils? Before you answer that question, we have to clarify what Jesus is emphasizing. We have to look at his warning as he sets it up in contrast to the “food that endures to eternal life.” 

Jesus isn’t throwing out a blanket prohibition against all of our personal pursuits or passions in this world. He isn’t saying the olympic athlete driven to be the best in the sport is sinning. He isn’t saying it’s wrong to want to advance your career. He isn’t saying you can’t have nice things. What he is saying, though, is that when our drive for those things surpasses or overshadows our pursuit of the food that endures to eternal life, then we have a problem.

With that understanding, we can ask the question again: are you working for food that spoils? What (or who) is it right now that you really really want? What do you have to have? What is receiving the bulk of your time and energy? What is consuming your thoughts? What will crush you if you can’t eventually get it or have it? What might even be a permissible reason for you to justify setting aside your integrity or ethics to get it? What are you willing to make significant sacrifices for as you seek it out? However you might answer any of those questions could be the indicator that you’re working for food that spoils.

And you know what happens to food that spoils, don’t you? Look at what happened to the Israelites who gathered too much manna in the wilderness (Ex. 16). It was covered in maggots! What a powerful visual aid for anything, everything, we could possibly work for or pursue with our short time here on earth that isn’t the stuff of eternal life! That’s what it all will come to! Whatever it is you’re burning the candle at both ends for will not amount to anything. It will all spoil and be gone. 

If it has hit you that you’ve been working for food that spoils for some time in your life, that’s the first step in turning things around. But beware – it’s very hard to give that up cold turkey and trade it in for the bread of life just like that.

Another pleasant visual aid that illustrates this can sometimes be found when bringing in your trash bins from the curb after they’ve been collected. Even after the trash has been emptied from the bins into the garbage truck, depending on what’s been in the bin all week, it isn’t uncommon to peek down into the bottom of the trash bin and see squirming maggots still hanging around. The trash is gone, but its effects are lingering.

So when it hits us that we’ve been giving our lives to working for food that spoils, and in repentance we want to turn things around, be aware that the effects of having worked so long for food that spoils can linger for a bit. It takes time to get rid of it.

But admitting that I’ve been working for food that spoils is the first step. Once I realize that, I can come to grips with how fruitless that endeavor has been, and how fruitful it will be to work for food that endures to eternal life.

Jesus had the crowd’s attention. While they didn’t fully understand yet, they did want to know what that looked like. They wanted to know what Jesus considered to be the kind of work he was calling for. “Then they asked him, ‘What must we do to do the works God requires?’” (v.28). While curious about turning things around, they still couldn’t detach themselves from the concept of working and pursuing and pleasing. 

This is understandable, given the essence of their religion, which was all about keeping laws and following rules. The Jewish faith emphasized obedience and righteousness and holy living. But, while these are all good things, they are not and never will be salvation things. They don’t save. People today who still share the sense that good people go to heaven are clinging to a work-based salvation. But good works for salvation is not only impossible; it’s also not what Jesus is after. There’s another “work” that is far more important. 

Jesus spelled it out for them. “Jesus answered, ‘The work of God is this: to believe in the one he has sent’” (v.29). Jesus’ take on work was not about what you had to be, but rather who you had to believe. That’s what God was after because that’s the only way God saves – through belief in his Son through whom salvation is secured. Believe in him and you are working for food that endures. And, even as Jesus is imploring his listeners to believe, notice who gets the credit for that work – even that is God’s work! When belief – faith – is created, it is always only God’s work, not ours.

No, we aren’t saved by works; we are saved by believing in Jesus. But you may wonder, since believing is a relatively simple thing, why can’t we then carry on with our daily lives and continue pursuing our other interests and goals in life, the stuff that possibly qualifies as the “food that spoils” which Jesus warned against? If I believe, and that is enough, and that is the work God requires, well count me in. I believe! Good enough, right?

Yes, it is good enough. But here’s the problem: you aren’t.

You aren’t good enough to sustain or maintain – let alone grow in – that belief, that faith. Think of a simple flashlight. It has one task. In shines light. And it will do that one task well and it will do that one task for a long time. But eventually you’ll notice the light from that flashlight begins to dim a bit. It isn’t quite as bright as it used to be. Once that happens, the rate at which it dims seems to accelerate until finally, there is no light. The flashlight stops doing its one job. Why? It’s time to recharge it or change the battery. 

We are not unlike that flashlight. We are called to shine in our faith. We really have one job: believe, which leads us to reflect that faith in our daily lives. But we cannot shine endlessly, and we cannot shine brightly, without either a regular charge or new batteries.

Or, to switch back to the picture Jesus is using, the focus of our series, we cannot function in faith without regularly being fed the bread of life. We need Jesus. A lot of Jesus, not just a few crumbs here and there. That may make our carb-sensitive culture a little uneasy, but trust me, you can’t have too much of this Bread! It is hands down the best bread!

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

For Moderation

Gracious God,
You go above and beyond in providing my blessings. Not only do you provide my daily bread; you give me more than I need and so much of a what I want. My list of reasons for which to give thanks is never a short one!

Along with these abundant blessings comes the challenge of appreciating them sensibly. While you give me so much to enjoy, I am tempted to overdo it at times. Give me the self control to make use of what you give me in moderation. It isn’t only sinful things I need to guard against, but good things gone to the extreme. Eating, gaming, social media/scrolling, even reading or working out – these and so many other activities are all things that can consume me in an unhealthy way. Help me to be disciplined in my use of your blessings. Do not allow me to be mastered by anything, but always in control, and using all that you give me to your glory.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Serve Others in Worship

Heavenly Father,
Sundays are sacred. When I enter your house of worship, I am eager to be fed and served by you with a diet of law and gospel. So much of worship directs my attention to the many ways you have served me in the past, you currently serve me in the present, and you promise to serve me in the future. How blessed I am to be served by you!

Your service to me inspires my service to others. Help me see the ways I can serve others gathering for worship this morning. I don’t just want to be a Sunday morning consumer, but also a contributor. Use worship as a platform to provide opportunities for me to follow in your footsteps by serving others. Give me the confidence to step in and serve when and where I can, and help others to be unafraid to ask. May your service to me and my service to other be a blessing today. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Honor Your Name

Holy Father,
The Ten Commandments are intended to be a blessing, not a burden. Nevertheless, since they expose my sin, I naturally bristle before them. With the Second Commandment you emphasize the importance of protecting your name and reputation. Through abuse, misuse, and even simply treating your name too casually, I have failed to give your name the honor and respect it deserves. It’s also a shame when your name is used to curse or wish evil on someone – especially when your name alone is the name that saves! 

May I revere your name by using it for the holy purposes you intended: to pray, praise, and give thanks. I want others to know the blessings associated with your name. Lead me to speak of you with respect and call on you confidently in the presence of others. Help me to appreciate the deep meaning behind the many different names and titles ascribed to you in Scripture and what they reveal about you. I pray that my thoughts, words, and actions will always glorify your name. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Manage Time Well

Eternal God,
As the creator of time itself, you established it all, from the seasons down to the seconds, for our good. You govern it perfectly and intend for our time of grace here on earth to be a blessing as we manage it in service to you through our service to others.

When we take this gift of time for granted, however, forgive us. Too often we treat it as an endless commodity without limit, and then when it passes us by we wonder what happened. Help us to manage our time well. We recognize there are different seasons of life that are made up of different rhythms and requirements. When we need to spend more time in service to others, let us be wary of neglecting time with our family. When we spend time with our family, let it be quality time, undisturbed by thoughts of work or other responsibilities.

Lead me also to see the importance of down time, time to rest and recover. Guard me from filling every available time slot in my day with more busyness and activity. Instead, help me to see the necessity of maintaining margin in my schedule so that I don’t run myself ragged. Give me the discipline also to guard my daily time with you and refuse to lie to myself by routinely defering because “I’ll get to it later.” Time with you is always time well spent, so help me prioritize it. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

For Siblings

Dear God,
Thank you for siblings. Brothers and sisters share a special bond that is unlike any other. At an early age, we push each other’s buttons, which provides us with thicker skin and helps us become more resilient. As we work together on chores and household responsibilities, we being to learn the importance and value of teamwork. Our siblings add more joy to our celebrations and are there to help pick us up when it seems there is little to celebrate. Through older siblings you provide us with examples to imitate. Younger siblings foster in us the ability to nurture and care for others in need. While no brother/sister relationship is perfect, we thank you for giving them to us. Where sibling relationships are strained, provide reconciliation, heal any hurts, and restore those relationships to be a source of blessing.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

For Wisdom

God of all wisdom,
Daily I am faced with numerous decisions to make. Some of those decisions do not carry much weight, while others do. Regardless, whether big or small, give me the wisdom to make wise decisions. 

Funnel wisdom to me in many ways. Help me to take note of it in my reading. Let me recognize it when I hear it spoken through others. Lead me to retain it when I learn it through my own personal experiences. Surround me with wise people who are willing to share their knowledge and understanding with me, and give me the humility to listen. Then, as you equip me with wisdom, guide me to apply it at every opportunity. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

For Courage to Face Fear

Almighty God,
I do not want my fears to debilitate me or limit how you can use me in your service. Whatever, fears I am facing right now, I bring them before you to ask for your help in overcoming them. Grant me the courage to stand up to my fears and face them with your confidence. The pages of Scripture are filled with your calming reminders and your chastising rebukes to your people not to be afraid. I need those reminders, too!

Give me a healthy perspective of fear, so that it serves me instead of suffocating me. It can make me aware of the need to be more careful and cautious in certain situations. Use fear positively to drive me back to you and your strength, so that I am addressing fears the right way – with confidence not in myself, but always in you. Through Jesus’ resurrection, victory is guaranteed. Fill me with the faith to believe it and to show it by boldly taking on my fears, no matter what they are. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

Fearless Ministry

(Mark 6:45-56)

Even if not officially clinically diagnosed, many people have phobias – fears – of a variety of things, some of which may be more rational than others. Fear of heights. Fear of spiders. Fear of enclosed spaces. Fear of social interaction. You could add many to the list and probably share some entertaining stories about the phobias we have.

Phobias aren’t the only types of fear we face. Fear also surfaces when what matters to us is threatened. Think about it. Two weeks ago in this series I began with the phrase, “I don’t care,” and we considered the different ways we use that phrase, and how it has no place when it comes to meaningful ministry. If we revisit that phrase and think about the different times we speak it, almost 100% of the time we’re referring to scenarios that involve little to no fear. Because if you don’t care about something, then you have nothing to be afraid of no matter how it turns out. If you don’t care whether or not you get into the college you applied to or hired at the job you applied for, then you’re not afraid to hear back, regardless of what the answer is. If you don’t care about your last doctor appointment possibly revealing a sickness or other health issue, then you’re not afraid when you get the call back from the hospital with the results. No, when we don’t care, neither do we fear.

But it’s quite different when we do care. That’s when fear settles in. If I have to get into this specific college or get hired by this particular company, then I start to get a little afraid the longer I have to wait to hear back. My fears lead me to conclude the worst in my mind. If I’ve been experience specific symptoms and am concerned about a possible diagnoses, I am afraid of getting the message the results are available and the doctor would like to set up a follow up appointment. When things matter to us, fear over certain possible outcomes creeps in. 

Since meaningful ministry matters, it is a likely candidate for experiencing fear. In fact, if we briefly revisit each post throughout this series, we see many reasons to be afraid. Surviving Snubbed Service (fear of rejection), our ministry is from God (which should give us confidence, but also raises the bar to the highest level possible when considering the importance of our ministry!), care and compassion (fear of stepping outside of our comfort zone or just not caring enough), meeting others’ needs with our own resources (fear of the sacrifices we have to make) – there’s much at stake here, and therefore reason to be afraid as we carry out ministry.

Of course we can avoid that fear… by simply avoiding the personal and congregational ministry opportunities right under our noses. We can withdraw. We can disengage. We can let others do the work. We can resort to the consumer mentality that approaches faith and my church as a place to get rather than a place to give. We can take any of these approaches and probably save ourselves from facing a lot of the fear involved in meaningful ministry.

Just beware that the description of the disciples given by Mark might also apply to any believer disinterested in ministry or seeking to avoid it: “they had not understood about the loaves; their hearts were hardened” (v.52). While their lack of understanding and faith was not being equated with unbelief, the observation was indicating that their faith had plenty of room to grow. 

If you think that ministry is an optional thing for the Christian, it would be wise for you to revisit what you think Christianity is all about. Ministry isn’t optional, and it certainly is not to be avoided because of fear, for faith without works is dead. Workless faith is a sham, because saving faith in Jesus Christ prompts gospel-geared, Savior-like service. Not even fear itself can get in the way!

The disciples were embarking on the next stage of their ministry. The thousands had been satisfied with such a feast of fish and bread that they couldn’t even finish it all. Now Jesus had sent them on their way ahead of them while he worked on sending off the crowd. Following that, Jesus spent time with his Father in prayer, and then was ready to meet up again with his disciples. They had taken a boat across the water, but Jesus, being Jesus, decided it would just be easier to walk across the lake rather than going through the hassle of securing another boat. 

Mark describes it somewhat curiously. “Shortly before dawn he went out to them, walking on the lake. He was about to pass by them, but when they saw him walking on the lake, they thought he was a ghost. They cried out, because they all saw him and were terrified” (v.48b-50). Mark tells us that Jesus was about to pass by the disciples. If they had not noticed them, would Jesus have simply continued his stroll on the sea while they struggled and strained to row against the wind? Was Jesus waiting for them to notice him and in confident trust, petition him to lend them a hand in some way, miraculous or otherwise? We do not know the answer, because the disciples did see Jesus, and thinking he was a ghost or an apparition, they were afraid. 

We shouldn’t be surprised by their fear. The whole Bible is a collection of fear-filled followers needing to be calmed in the face of their fears. When we look at the number of times the Lord either directly or indirectly through one of his messengers needs to reassure his people not to be afraid throughout Scripture, we see just how prevalent fear is. It’s a part of human nature ever since Adam and Eve hid in the garden out of fear after having disobeyed God. The Old Testament is littered with the general repetition, “Do not be afraid.” The New Testament adds to it. Zechariah was told not to be afraid when he got the birth announcement of his own son. Joseph was told not to be afraid to take Mary as his wife, as was Mary when she was told she’d bear the Savior. The angels told the shepherds not to be afraid on the night Jesus was born. The disciples were told not to be afraid on numerous occasions. Jesus taught and preached about not being afraid. The inner circle was told not to be afraid at Jesus’ Transfiguration. The believers were told not to be afraid during multiple resurrection appearances. Over and over and over again God needs to repeat himself: do not fear.

So again here in the boat. “Immediately he spoke to them and said, ‘Take courage! It is I. Don’t be afraid.’ Then he climbed into the boat with them, and the wind died down” (v.50-51). Even more surprising than the persistence of fear from God’s people throughout Scripture is the persistence on the part of God to calm it. As Jesus did, we try to allay the fears of others by reassuring them with words like “Everything’s going to be OK” or “Don’t be afraid, nothing bad is going to happen.” 

The only problem is that we have zero power to back up such wishful thinking. We can’t guarantee everything’s going to be OK or keep bad things from happening. That’s why others often find only a limited comfort in our words, no matter how well-intentioned they may be.

But God’s words carry weight, because God’s words carry God’s backing. We can repeat Jesus’ words to others, “Take courage!” and “Don’t be afraid,” but only he can make the claim that matters most: “It is I.” Those are the words that matter, because God is the One who can do something about it. A child knows the feelings of safety and security when dad is around. When dad is nearby and able reassure a frightened child with a version of “It is I,” that child is calmed down. But, as that child grows up and realizes that dad isn’t actually a superhero, those words later on aren’t able to carry the same weight.

But God’s words carry weight, because God’s words carry God’s backing. God’s words are backed up by action. God’s words are not just empty filler. So when God says “It is I,” it is the One who has the power to still hurricanes and snuff out raging wildfires. He is the One who swallowed a powerhouse Egyptian enemy with Red Sea and wiped out an entire Assyrian army overnight. The One present is he who cures debilitating disease and breathes life back into the dead.

Yes, the One who came back from the dead himself is present. He was always present. He is always present. He always will be present. “It is I,” coming from his lips causes fear itself to be afraid! It cannot help but cower in his presence, for he removed every ounce of power that fear held over us. 

Satan’s temptations? I can stand up to them, for what do I have to fear? Satan’s accusations? I can direct him to exhibits A and B, the cross and tomb, and show him what Jesus Christ has done with his accusations and my sin. Fear of guilt, shame, or embarrassment? I can claim my identity as God’s child, which buoys me up above all the worst I can imagine. Fear of ridicule or rejection? I consider the source and care little. Fear of death itself? Pssshhh. “It is I,” says the Lord, and he says it to me. And to you. With his promise, we step over fear as if we hardly even noticed it, and in bold courage carry out ministry fearlessly.

You and I are called to carry out fearless ministry. We do it together because we know that we have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Let others say of us, “I don’t know if I could have done that, but I am not surprised that those believers at Shepherd of the Hills did it – they’re fearless. They’re not afraid of anything.” Let us be unafraid to step out and try new things for the sake of the gospel and the souls at stake, as we did for five years with The Way. While that ministry effort discontinued, its fruit remains. Which is better, to fearlessly fail forward for the kingdom by seizing opportunities or to comfortably play it safe as myriad ministry opportunities pass us by? We have nothing to fear – “It is I” is right here, wherever and whenever we lead with his Word and promises. Fear not – his Word has always been the source of his work, and it will continue to be. So long as we hold that out before us, we can courageously and confidently carry out fearless ministry. Don’t be afraid to be a part of it!