DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Guard Me against Glory-Seeking

Dear Father,
We live in an age when the internet and social media have created more ways than ever for people to become popular. Sometimes that popularity is merited, based on impressive accomplishments that were achieved through dedication and hard work. Other times, though, it seems to happen for reasons beyond anyone’s explanation. Getting noticed for either of those reasons is neither good nor bad necessarily, but pride can quickly see that things take a turn for the worse. 

I ask you to guard my heart from the desire to pursue popularity as a means of glory-seeking. There are noble pursuits to focus on which would serve the greater good in their own right, and then there are efforts simply to get known. Let me be so satisfied in being known and loved by you that I don’t need to crave the world’s validation or the glory that might come with it. Whatever glory the world can offer falls woefully short of the significance of belonging to you. Let that be more than enough for me.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

Giving God Glory by Getting God’s Glory

(2 Corinthians 3:7-18)

The world’s glory is like a disappearing act. The darling company that is behind the skyrocketing stock symbol today will have investors and shareholders scrambling for months after its shares suddenly plunge. Once the A-list celebrity everyone was talking about is in a movie that bombs or generates some negative publicity, we move on to the next big name. The championship team was all anyone talked about, until they barely mustered a winning record the following year. The world’s notion of glory is pursued by so many with such drive and determination, only to find out it’s nothing but a mirage.

But there is glory. Real glory. And that glory is God’s glory. 

You want to know something astonishing about God’s glory? He wants to share it with you! The same author of these words from Corinthians wrote elsewhere that God desires “that you might share in the glory of our Lord Jesus Christ” (2 Thessalonians 2:14). How amazing is that?! A glory unlike the world’s disappointing version of glory, but a real glory, and God wants you to share in it!

So how do we come by this glory? How do we take our share in it? There are two channels by which God reveals his glory in Scripture: law and gospel. 

In the Old Testament, God’s glory was visible to the Israelites while in the wilderness on their way to the Promised Land. When God first gave his Ten Commandments on Mt. Sinai, his glory was enough to terrify the Israelites through loud crackling thunder and lightning, trumpet sounds, and smoke around the mountain. Then, as the Israelites wandered, there was a special place outside of their encampment called the tent of meeting where Moses went to meet with the Lord face to face. Whenever Moses was inside the tent, God’s glory was visible via a cloud column standing at the entrance. Then, after God gave Moses his commandments for the second time, his glory was manifest through Moses’ radiant face. “When Moses came down from Mount Sinai with the two tablets of the covenant law in his hands, he was not aware that his face was radiant because he had spoken with the Lord” (Ex. 34:29). God’s glory was visibly associated with the law God gave to his people. 

When we think of God’s glory in connection with the law, we may not be drawn to that type of glory, and understandably so – it’s terrifying! But make no mistake, God’s law is glorious.

To appreciate the reality of how glorious God’s law is as it stands on its own, imagine how different a typical day would like for the rest of your life if you and everyone else kept the law perfectly. You’d wake up in the morning to fill up with the Word, then see headlines in the news that were only positive. Any exchanges with family members result in smiles. The drive to work sees commuters politely waving each other ahead of them. Work is filled with happy employees encouraging one another and offering any help wherever it may be needed. A scroll through social media leaves you feeling uplifted and blessed by how good God is to so many people. A few errands after work leave you delighted by such pleasant customer service, which you of course expressed your appreciation for. You are excited to arrive home, knock out a couple of chores – which hardly seems like an appropriate label for something you enjoy doing so much – and then prepare dinner. Afterward, a little down time with a book or show, then some more with the Good Book, some prayers, and off to bed.

If we were able to experience how amazing that life would be, we’d understand how glorious God’s law is! If we could all live perfectly, our minds would be blown. Take it a step further and consider why we long for heaven so much: no sin! Only perfection!

Well, what are we really describing? Perfect obedience to the law. So the law itself is glorious because it is in perfect harmony with how a perfect God longs for everything to be.

But, as Paul describes in our verses this morning, we have a better understanding of why it isn’t natural for us to perceive of God’s law as glorious. “Now if the ministry that brought death, which was engraved in letters on stone, came with glory, so that the Israelites could not look steadily at the face of Moses because of its glory, transitory though it was, 8will not the ministry of the Spirit be even more glorious? 9If the ministry that brought condemnation was glorious, how much more glorious is the ministry that brings righteousness! 10For what was glorious has no glory now in comparison with the surpassing glory. 11And if what was transitory came with glory, how much greater is the glory of that which lasts!” (2 Corinthians 3:7-11). That covenant, that ministry of the law results in only one thing: death! Why? Not because there’s anything wrong with it, but because it so clearly exposes what’s wrong with us and what we deserve because of it. 

So the law itself is glorious and reveals God’s glory, but it will never be the avenue to our pursuit of glory, because it can only kill those who sin against it. Think about what this means when it comes to Christian living and obedience. Our obedience isn’t carried out under the misunderstanding that glory is somehow attached to the law. In other words, rules and keeping the law are not the bottom line. We don’t strive to live that way or teach our kids to live that way just because it’s “the right thing to do.” That is moralizing. There is no glory attached to that. Instead, the law assures us that there is no such thing as a “good” Christian, regardless of how much we might throw that term around. There are only perfect Christians, and that label will never be attached to us on the basis of the law, but only through the other channel by which God reveals his glory: the gospel.

That is what Paul was referring to as a greater ministry than the one that “brought death” and “brought condemnation,” the one that was “transitory.” Paul’s point was that since the glorious law when applied to us can only kill and condemn, it cannot compare to the gospel, which has an entirely different purpose. “Will not the ministry of the Spirit be even more glorious? How much more glorious is the ministry that brings righteousness! For what was glorious has no glory now in comparison with the surpassing glory. And if what was transitory came with glory, how much greater is the glory of that which lasts!” (v.8, 9b-11). 

This glory is a glory that the world cannot find and that no made-up religion can ever offer, for as Paul wrote, when it comes to the veil of the law, “only in Christ is it taken away” (v.14b). The gospel news is that “whenever anyone turns to the Lord, the veil is taken away. (v.16). Jesus kept the law perfectly, so righteousness comes only through him. “Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom” (v.17). The gospel offers freedom in place of the law’s condemnation, and only through Jesus, because he alone kept the law perfectly in our place. The gospel offers freedom in place of the law’s condemnation, and only through Jesus, because he alone paid the price for our sinful law-breaking. What could be more glorious than that?!

And if this gospel glory is only through Jesus, then what does that say about proximity to him? If freedom is ours through the glorious gospel, which is inseparable from Christ and only comes through Christ, then where else do we want to be than where he is? 

Consider the visual aid God provides to illustrate this. What happened when Moses met with the Lord in the tent of meeting? His face was radiant… for a time. Eventually, though, after he was done meeting with the Lord, the radiance faded.

What happened when the disciples accompanied Jesus on top of the mountain? They saw his radiance… for a time. Eventually, though, after they departed down the mountain, the radiance faded.

What happens when God’s people gather where God is wherever his Word is proclaimed and his sacraments administered, just as they are today? By faith we see his radiant glory, though it is hidden in the water attached to his promise and the bread and wine set apart for his purpose. Where the Word is, there Jesus is, and where Jesus is, there is God’s glory. 

But what happens as we distance ourselves from Jesus? The glory fades. Or, to state it more correctly, the glory appears to us to be fading, when in reality it still remains; it just looks like it’s fading because we can’t see it as clearly the farther away we are from it. 

Then, the further away we are from it, or the longer we stay away from it, the more we become accustomed to a glory-less life. We forget how glorious it is to be in the presence of his glory. So we chase the world’s ideas of glory here and there, thinking we catch little glimpses of it.

But as stated earlier, such perceived glory comes to nothing. It is but a mirage. And we live such glory-less lives only because we have distanced ourselves from the Lord of glory himself.

Paul described one way it happened in his first letter to the Corinthians: “None of the rulers of this age understood it, for if they had, they would not have crucified the Lord of glory” (1 Cor. 2:8). They didn’t get it either. They thought glory could be achieved through the law, but since Jesus and his message stood in the way of that, they killed him. If they would have understood and believed the relationship between God’s glorious law and his glorious gospel, and how they work together to lead us to Christ, then they could have known true and lasting glory.

But we don’t have to suffer the same fate, for we know where God’s glory is and where to find it. We join the psalmist in gushing about it: “Lord, I love the house where you live, the place where your glory dwells” (Ps. 26:8). God’s house is where his glory is! That is the place where his glory dwells because that is the place where the gospel is dwells. Unlike Moses, however, the glory doesn’t have to fade when we depart from there, because if that glory is wherever the gospel dwells, then I take that glory with me and let it dwell richly in my home and daily life. 

That glory is for us, and it changes us. “And we all, who with unveiled faces contemplate the Lord’s glory, are being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory, which comes from the Lord, who is the Spirit” (v.18). Jesus was transfigured on the mountain; his people are transfigured – changed – to be more and more like him, through the gospel.

There is no greater way to give God glory than by getting God’s glory. Let the gospel saturate your soul. Hunger and thirst for it more than whatever else it is you’re chasing after in life right now, which is glory-less. We know where to find real glory. It’s where God is. And where is God? Wherever his Word is.

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Love the Place Where Your Glory Dwells

Heavenly Father,
Sundays are sacred. When we gather together in your house for worship, there we find your glory. Since your glory is wherever you are, and you are wherever your Word is, we delight in joining with others at church to bask in your glory. Draw back your wandering sheep who have distanced themselves from your house for worship. Where they have been enticed by the misleading lie of any sort of vanishing worldly glory, remove the veil from their eyes to see the truth. Lead them, together with the lost, to repent and return to you for a glory that will never fade. Create in all believers a heart that echos the faith-born yearning of the psalmist: “Lord, I love the house where you live, the place where your glory dwells” (Ps. 26:8).

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Measure My Words

Gracious Savior,
When I allow myself to become angry or irritated, especially by someone else’s words or actions, that is when I am most likely to unleash an unfiltered and unloving response of my own, either verbally or from a keyboard. Such words have never contributed positively to better understanding or resolution, and they never will. Furthermore, that kind of communication isn’t just hurtful to my neighbor; it’s also sin against you, my God. Have mercy on me and forgive my many thoughtlessly spoken (or typed!) words!

Instead, help me to speak only what builds others up. Let my words be words of encouragement, that others may find them to be a breath of fresh air. Even when I am called to admonish or correct, the words I use, along with my tone and body language, should better reflect the loving motives of my heart. If I am to speak in a way that edifies others and honors you, I need to be able to first keep my emotions in check. Let your Holy Spirit guard and guide my heart, so that the words which flow from it serve my neighbor and are always pleasing in your sight.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Love Radically For My Neighbor’s Sake

Loving Jesus,
While loving my enemy does not come easily, one of the blessings of putting that kind of radical love into practice is that I am displaying for others how radical your love for them is. When I avoid judging them, I am showing them a God who doesn’t judge them as they deserve. When I do not condemn them, I am showing them a God who doesn’t condemn as they deserve. When I forgive them unconditionally, I am showing them a God who forgives them unconditionally. When I pour good into their lives, I am showing them the God who is the source of all those good things. So then, when the opportunity to love my enemy arises, I ask you to grant me an increase of faith in you and all that you have done for me, so that I may faithfully and confidently love radically, and thereby show my enemy a God who loves HIM radically, too. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Love Radically For My Own Sake

Loving Jesus,
While loving my enemy does not come easily, one of the blessings of putting that kind of radical love into practice is that I am displaying a confident belief in your radical love for me. Only when I am certain that you have not judged me am I able to withhold judging others. Only when I am certain that you have not condemned me am I able to avoid condemning others. Only when I am certain that you have forgiven me am I able to forgive others. Only when I see how much goodness you have poured into my life am I able to pour good into the lives of others. So then, when the opportunity to love my enemy arises, I ask you to grant me an increase of faith in you and all that you have done for me, so that I may faithfully and confidently love radically, as I KNOW you have loved me.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Love Others – Even My Enemies

Lord Jesus,
My ego makes loving others a big enough challenge on its own, so when you up the ante and direct me to love even my enemies, I cringe. Honestly, I don’t want to hear it. The last thing I think my enemy deserves is anything good from me. Instead of love, I would prefer to see a heaping dose of misfortune and misery directed at him. When I find myself wishing ill will on others, then I think pretty highly of myself for not actually following through or saying the types of things that come to mind. But your charge to love my enemies means that even when I just do nothing against my enemy, I still fall terribly short! 

Love as you define it includes action. Love as you demonstrated it included action – sacrificial action that saw you hung up and crucified for me. And it might just make sense if I had done anything noteworthy for you or someone else that merited such sacrifice; but I did the exact opposite. My sin reveals my status as sworn enemy by nature, and daily I demonstrate that that enemy is still a part of me. So what did you do for the likes of me? You suffered for me. You died for me. You rose for me. You live for me. You love me.

Now spur on my love for others, even my enemies. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

Use Me to Overcome Evil with Good

Mighty God,
We are not only surrounded by evil everywhere, but as sinners we contribute to it ourselves as well. Nevertheless, when anything evil happens, you warn us not to be overcome by it. But you don’t stop there; you call us also to overcome evil with good. My sinful nature knows full well how daunting this is, for wherever evil is, there is a part of me that is drawn to it and longs to be a willing participant in it. 

Therefore, stir up in me the new man, set apart by the Holy Spirit to live a pure and blameless life. Let him win the day when evil arises, smothering wickedness with sanctified thoughts, words, and actions. Grand scale or small, may the good that comes from me bring a swift end to the fires of evil wherever they fan into flame. When gossip is spreading, let me stall and stop it. If lies catch on around me, let me snuff them out with the truth. May my righteousness overcome violence, my kindness kill cruelty, and my compassion counter indifference and animosity. You overcame the evil one by the cross; now use me as your instrument to continue carrying out your work and overcoming evil with your good. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

Doormat Christianity

(Luke 6:27-38)

What’s easier for you: avoiding the bad things you’re not supposed to do, or doing the good thing that you’re supposed to do? We refer to the first category as sins of commission – committing something bad that we were directed not to do. We refer to the second category as sins of omission – omitting or not doing something good that we were directed to do.

It’s good to review those terms, because Jesus’ words to us from Luke 6 deal much more with the one type of sin than the other. He doesn’t convict his listeners with a list of things they shouldn’t be doing, like losing our cool, hating, getting drunk, lying, sleeping around, etc. Instead, he hits on the good things God’s people should be doing – even when circumstances make it very difficult to do them. 

But maybe we don’t feel like we miss the mark all that much on what Jesus says in his sermon here. That might be because we tend to generalize what he’s saying and kinda sorta oversimplify it to mean that we shouldn’t get even or get too worked up when others abuse or mistreat us. So long as we don’t retaliate, so long as we don’t plot the demise of our enemy, then we’re more or less keeping the gist of what Jesus says here.

Only Jesus doesn’t just say, “make sure you don’t get even”; he says quite clearly, “love and bless the people who give you all the reason in the world to not want to love and bless them.”

You know who Jesus is talking about, don’t you? When a celebrity threatens to move out of the United States because of how embarrassed or ashamed they are of it, do you pray for God to bless that person? When images or videos of people in other countries burning the American flag circulate online, do you ask how we as a nation or you as an individual can do good to those people? When you’re engaged in a conversation with someone who expresses the opinion that your ugly Christian faith or political views are responsible for destroying this country, do you lovingly pray for that person afterward? Is the hard-working day laborer who is here illegally your sworn enemy who is plundering your hard-earned tax dollars, or someone to whom you look to offer your coat and shirt and whatever other needs they might have? Do you love the friend or family member who was guilty of abusing you or another family member?

What Jesus is saying here doesn’t sit well with us. We don’t want to hear it. It’s not how things should work. It’s not how the world works. The weak lose. The strong who flex their might win and get things done. Those who make sure the opposition doesn’t get away with it are the ones who come out ahead. 

And that might work for this world. But Jesus has his sights set on a different kingdom – the one not of this world. Jesus is more concerned about heaven and hell than all the other ambitions or drama the world gets caught up in.

That being the case, he is not concerned that his followers look and behave like the rest of the world. In fact, he wants us to stand out. Why? So that he stands out. So that our radical actions and behavior are so uncommon and unordinary to the eyes of the world that others take note, and when they do, then they seek out why, ultimately to arrive at the source, Jesus.

Are you skeptical that Jesus’ approach here toward our enemies is the right one? Are you convinced that the best way for the church to get things done is through the mighty arm of the government or some other worldly method that has shown itself to be effective? Then you’ve forgotten how effective Jesus’ approach is. You’ve lost track of how well it works.

But you cannot doubt that Jesus’ approach works, because you are the proof!

Jesus took the lead in loving his enemies and winning them over! After all, what did you think you were before he brought you to faith?!? Everything that Jesus describes here about enemies is describing exactly what we naturally were to him. Our hearts by nature could only hate him, curse him, slap him on the cheek, and take from him whatever we could. That was us! That was what we were to him! 

But Jesus didn’t come to punish us, his enemies by nature, into submission. He didn’t come to establish policies and enact strict laws by which he would force everyone to fall in line and make the world a better place. He didn’t come to get even with his enemies, exact revenge and either win them over or remove them. 

No, it was the unconditional love that won you over and made you who you are. To forget that is to turn the Savior’s work into an afterthought. So we know how powerfully this no-strings-attached, mercy-extending love is, because we are the proof. It worked on us; it will work on others. So let’s put it to the test!

One of the struggles believers have with these verses, though, is that it sounds as if Jesus is essentially calling us to be doormats. It sounds like we are just supposed to allow everyone else to trample all over us no matter what. That we should let people take advantage of us. We should be fine with being ridiculed, bullied, or mistreated. We cannot ever speak up for ourselves or defend ourselves, but must always be willing to be a punching bag and absorb a lifetime of punches as followers of Jesus. If that is how we understand what it means to be a doormat, then we’ve got it wrong.

But there is something to that picture of a doormat that we want to apply positively. We are doormats – when we consider the location and role a doormat plays. Think about it. A doormat is placed in front of a door for those preparing to walk through it. It’s a natural entryway through the door. Anyone utilizing a doormat is preparing to walk through the door. The doormat prepares someone on the outside to enter into a building or home.

Is that not what Jesus is calling us to in these verses? Jesus describes himself as the gate or the narrow door. But how are others to arrive at that door? How are they to ever know it’s there and it’s for them? Through us. We are the doormats who by our radical loving actions lead others to the door, ultimately hoping and praying that the Holy Spirit will then walk them through that door into eternal life and salvation. 

That’s not such a stretch when we remember whose we are and who we are: we are Christs because we are Christ’s – both with and without the apostrophe. It has been said that in the days of the early Christian church, believers were called “little Christs,” intended to be a derogatory title. But there is nothing really derogatory at all about that title – little Christs is what we are, and we only bear that title because we belong to him! We are his because he purchased and won us. And because we are his, we represent him to the world. A world filled with Christians is intended to be a world filled with little Christs who are reflections of Christ and draw others to him. 

When we do this, our lifestyles serves a two-fold purpose. First, we show how well we really know our gracious God – that he really is kind. He really is merciful. He really has forgiven us. He really does give over flowingly to us. He really doesn’t condemn us.

Secondly, living this way shows our gracious God to others. There is a significant contrast Jesus set up between believers and nonbelievers. The radical love Jesus calls us to is radical because it is uncommon and unknown in the world.

The world sees love returned where love has been given. The world sees good extended by those who received it in the first place. The world sees people lend to others expecting full payment – and maybe even some interest – in return. Such behavior doesn’t stand out in the world. It’s common.

But Jesus is highlighting what will stand out in the world. Love returned to those from whom hate was received. Blessings and prayers extended to those from whom curses and mistreatment were received. Pacifism in response to physical harm done against me. These things are not common, natural, or normal in the world. They are not witnessed regularly or routinely. So when they happen, people take note. When they occur, others are paying attention. 

That’s what we’re after. We want an audience. But not for ourselves. We want an audience for others with the true God. And our words, our actions, our radical love toward others, may be just the introduction necessary for others to gain an audience with the true God.

Isn’t that more valuable than my insistence that I right every wrong, that injustices against me are rectified, that others get what they deserve? God will surely take care of those things. What is more important to us, however, is that others potentially gain an audience with God – that’s when we’re showing others how important God is to us.

As a bit of a side note, it’s important to clarify what it doesn’t mean to turn the other cheek. It doesn’t mean that as a believer you must take abuse from everyone else. Jesus is not saying that you are required to be and remain a victim of someone else taking advantage of you. It does not mean that you are required to allow anyone else to abuse you physically, emotionally, or in any way whatsoever. 

Jesus’ words are not intended to condone the wrongdoer in his sin, but rather to shape how we respond when wronged. There is a big difference between giving permission to the wrong someone else is committing and focusing on how I respond. Too often these verses get twisted by the abuser, who contorts them into some scriptural support for his atrocious sinful behavior, or by critics of Christianity who conclude that Jesus doesn’t allow Christians to stand up for themselves.

The truth is, when I have been wronged, I can stand up for myself and love my enemy and do good to him at the same time. Remember, after all, that the victory we have in Jesus Christ through the Resurrection is our victory. We are not victims, but victors. In him we are not the weak and oppressed, but the strong and courageous, which is exactly what it takes to love others when they wrong us, whether the hurt they leave us with is a slight scrape or a deep wound. 

When we love others radically, we are allowing God to be “kind to the ungrateful and wicked. (v.35). He does this through us! God’s desire is that through your radical treatment of others in the world, they would come to know what we do. So Jesus concludes this section by encouraging us, “Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful. Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you” (v.36-38).

Through our mercy, others know God’s mercy. When we don’t condemn, others can know a God who doesn’t condemn. When we forgive, others know God’s forgiveness. When we are good to others, they can know God’s goodness.

Believer, be a doormat, be OK with being the step that others take on their way through the narrow door, Jesus, who ushers them into eternal life. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Imitate Joseph

Forgiving Father,
When Joseph revealed himself to his brothers visiting him in Egypt, two things stood out about his handling of the situation that I want to imitate. First, even with all the traumatic experiences in his past that had taken place to get him to that point, he displayed complete confidence in your navigation of it all for the greater good. He knew you were using those seasons of adversity, during which he must have felt hopeless at times, to ultimately bless and save many lives through his leadership. Remind me during hard seasons in my life of how capable you are of bringing your blessing out of any situation imaginable, and lead me to trust that you are doing just that.

Secondly, even though Joseph was in a position to ignore, shame, severely punish, or even put to death his brothers for their past treatment of him, he harbored no ill will and showed them nothing but love and affection. How hard this is when others mistreat me! I prefer to ruminate over how poorly I was treated, bathe in bitterness, or scheme to get even in some fashion. But Joseph’s is the better way, because it is your way. You did not treat those who mistreated you the way they deserved to be treated. Instead, you forgave them; you forgave me. Give me the same spirit that is eager to forgive and reconcile, no matter the wrong carried out against me, just as Joseph and Jesus did.  

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen.