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To Replace Unnecessary Concerns with Contentment

Loving Savior,
When you exhorted your disciples and followers not to set their hearts on earthly concerns like clothing and food, their worries at that time were of a different nature. Their concern was based on quantity – whether or not they would have enough of the basic needs of life. 

We, too, are concerned about things like clothing and food, but not for the same reasons. Very few of us have to worry about quantity – about having enough clothing or food. Instead, we focus on quality. We take for granted that we have enough and worry instead about having what is best or new or trendy. How easily we forget how blessed we are that we seldom have to worry about ever having enough! Nevertheless, when our hearts are attached to the stuff of this world, they will always find cause for concern or worry. Free me from that. Let me trust you to provide and bless me not with “more” or “newer,” but with contentment.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Those Living in Fear

Faithful Father,
So many people live in fear. Some may deny it or try to hide it, while others are more open about it. The sources of their fear vary widely. Financial fear of being let go at work and/or falling behind on bills and piling up debt. Physical fear of sickness, injury, or death. Fear of being found out as a fraud or a fake in some area of life. The fear of not being good enough. Fear of letting others who are depending on you down. Fear of the government. We face so many fears that we have specific names for them all!

Yet repeatedly throughout your Word, you implore us not to be afraid – and with good reason! You promise us your peace in the place of any trouble we could possibly ever face. Our hearts need not be troubled, for you have overcome the world. Whatever fear we face – it will pass. Even a worst-case scenario as long as you are by our side is manageable. For those who do not know you, lead them to you so that they can experience a life free from fear. For those who know and believe in you, yet are still crippled by fear, draw them closer to you and to your promises so that you can fill them with the faith needed to deflate their fears.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Learn to Relax

Dear Rest-Giver,
In a culture that prides itself in productivity, busyness, and putting the pedal to the metal non-stop, some of us lack the ability to relax. We have hard-wired ourselves to either be on the go or on our phones, so that our stress and anxiety levels actually rise when we are faced with unscheduled time and/or detached from a screen. This behavior is not sustainable physically, emotionally, or spiritually. Help me break away!

You won rest for us, a real rest from the stress and worry of our wrongs and failed righteousness. Your gracious forgiveness calms us with a peace that cannot be found anywhere else. Let that peace flow into my daily routine and schedule, so that I can learn to relax in the rest I have in you. I don’t need to – nor can I! – control everything around me. Keep me from getting sucked back into the endlessly spinning hamster wheel of life, and lead me to lean into your rest and both embrace and excel in the art of regular relaxation.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Believers to Help Heal Our Nation

Dear Lord,
As our nation adjusts to a new administration governing our country, there is a great deal of both hurt and happiness at the same time. Send an extra measure of your Spirit into the hearts of believers to powerfully equip us to be peacemakers. Help Christians to look beyond party affiliation and see neighbors to love and care for, regardless of how they cast their vote.  Forgive believers when we are judgmental, brash, or abrasive with others regarding their political stance. Give us instead a gentle and patient spirit.

Let us take the lead in helping heal in every way possible. Grant us sensitivity and understanding regarding the views of others, and accept any differences with civility. Let us pray for all politicians and government officials across the board, so that they can be unified in their goal of seeking what is best for our country. Bless us with a genuine desire to seek not our own self-interests, but the interests of the greater good. As we let our light shine by loving our neighbors, let it attract many souls to you and the light of your salvation, thereby unifying us in the best way possible – as loved and forgiven saints.  

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Advent Peace

Savior Jesus,
Advent fills us with hope, peace, and joy. I thank you, Lord, for a peace that surpasses all understanding. In addition to prophesying Bethlehem as your birthplace, Micah also prophesied that you would be our peace. The peace you came to bring, announced by the angels and spread by shepherds, is for all people. It is not a promise that our world will be free of war or that conflict will disappear from our lives. It is, however, the assurance that our sin does not estrange us from you. The ultimate blessing of your birth is that it set in motion your holy life and innocent death that would cancel out our sin and reconcile us to you again. Since our sin no longer separates us from you, we have your undeserved favor resting upon us now and forever. There is no greater peace than that! 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Curb Anxiety

All-Powerful Lord,
As Christmas and the end of the year draw closer, it isn’t uncommon for anxiety levels to rise. Deadlines loom and time-sensitive tasks need to get done. When we mix in our tendency to eliminate any margin in our lives by overcommitting and overscheduling, we have a recipe for disaster.

Some may struggle with anxiety more than others, but the remedy is the same: shifting our attention away from ourselves and/or the problem and on to you, the solution. When worry starts to set in, train us to counter it with gratitude by reflecting on your goodness to us. Grant us also the proper perspective to see where our concerns fit in over the timeline of eternity, so that we don’t inflate their importance.

Fill us with feelings of peace as we are reminded of your promise to work out all things – including that which stresses us out – for the good of those who love you. Finally, while we like to imagine ourselves at the wheel, controlling all things in our lives, remind us that you alone rule over the entire universe, from the small daily details to the less frequent large scale events. Therefore, whatever is on my plate today or any other day is never too big for you to handle.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Manage My Emotions

Patient Lord,
This time of year can be one that is filled with tension and stress. On top of the normal daily to-do’s, there are additional deadlines and added responsibilities at home, work, and school. All of these factors provide ripe opportunities for impatience to creep in and for my temper to flare. 

I ask you, therefore, to help me be aware of all this so that I am actively managing my emotions well and not letting them get the better of me. As I sense my irritability levels rising and my patience running thin, I know I need to take control of my thoughts and redirect them to thoughts of peace and serenity. Place your Word and many rich promises on my heart at those times, so that I may find refuge in them even when everything around me feels chaotic and out of control. By your Spirit, keep me calm and in control of my thoughts and emotions. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Peace and Calm

Prince of Peace,
Be present with me when I am feeling anxious and unsettled. Sometimes when I experience these feelings, I know exactly where they’re coming from; other times, though, I can’t determine the source of them or understand why they spring up. Whether or not I know their cause, however, I know that you are the solution. 

When I feel like I am not in control of any given situation, calm my uncertainties with the assurance that you are. You promise to weave everything in my life for my eternal good. When I am worried, take my worry and make it captive instead to a stalwart trust in your providence over all of creation and in my individual life. Replace my worst-case scenario thinking with a fear-shattering faith that is eager to see the blessings you are able to bring out of every circumstance. Let my confidence of your governance over all things cover me with a blanket of peace and calm. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Fruit of the Spirit: Peace

Holy Spirit,
The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Bear in me more of this fruit in my daily living as I strive to walk a godly path in my life.

Today I pray for peace – peace in challenging relationships, peace in the face of worry and anxiety, and peace in the face of the unknown. Where I am personally responsible for allowing seeds of discord and division to germinate, forgive me. Remind me that your forgiveness is truly the source of my peace, for your peace is so much more than just absence of conflict; it is the assurance of my restored relationship with you through the reconciliation of Jesus, who is my peace. So, Holy Spirit, let your peace permeate my life daily, and pass it on to others through my words and actions. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

The Salvation Song of Simeon

(Luke 2:22-40)

If you were asked to make a list of the top Christmas songs, which ones would be at or near the top? I wonder if your answer to that question on the last day of December would differ from the answer you would have given on the first day of December. After all, part of the “magic” of the holidays is that a month of listening to the same songs can turn the nostalgic into the nauseating.

When it comes to Christmas favorites, we’d probably need to differentiate between the traditional and the trendy, between the hymns we enjoy singing in church and the songs that are played throughout the season on the radio. Some Christmas hymns are so close to our hearts, that to go through the entire Christmas season without singing them in church just wouldn’t seem right. Families tend to have their own particular play list of songs and artists that they find especially meaningful.

Whatever songs might make your list, add to them the one recorded in Luke 2. It is a “Christmas” song that has remained on the top of the chart of Christianity for 2000 years. How many other songs of Christmas can compete with that? So popular is the song that the church still sings it today as a regular part of worship!  It is known as the “Song of Simeon,” or Nunc Dimittis (“Now you dismiss”) in Latin.  

Who is this Simeon? Outside of Luke’s Gospel, we know nothing reliable. Nevertheless, Luke does share with us several telling details. “Now there was a man in Jerusalem called Simeon, who was righteous and devout.  He was waiting for the consolation of Israel, and the Holy Spirit was upon him” (v. 25).  He is not given any special title or recognition.  He was not mentioned as being a priest or any other position of authority; just a man in Jerusalem.  He was both “righteous” and “devout.” He took his faith seriously and was a deeply committed man of God – a man who delighted in the Lord.    

This devout man had been waiting patiently in his lifetime for what Luke refers to as “the consolation of Israel.”  Consider that phrase for just a moment.  Who is it that needs consolation?  It is someone who has experienced a loss or disappointment. We think of a person shedding tears to be in need of some sort of consolation to help ease the loss. Even in the sporting world, a team settles for a consolation prize if they can’t compete for the championship. 

But the word used in the context of Simeon is much deeper. The reference is to the One who brings consolation from sin and its guilt.  Simeon is waiting for the Messiah—the Anointed One—the promised of God to every generation.  He was waiting for his Savior.

And by some special revelation of the Holy Spirit, it was made known to him that “he would not die before he had seen the Lord’s Christ” (v. 26).  It was not mere coincidence then, that he would encounter Mary and Joseph and their newborn son in the temple. Through divine intervention, the Holy Spirit had led him there, but it was ceremonial law that had led Mary and Joseph there. 

They were there to fulfill law that required every firstborn son to be presented to the Lord. This practice had its origins in the Passover. While still in Egypt, God had initially “passed over” the Israelite homes that had marked their doorposts with the blood of a lamb and spared their firstborn son. To serve as a reminder of how God had spared every firstborn son, God’s people were then required to dedicate every firstborn son to his service. Later, even though males from the tribe of Levi eventually overtook this role, parents were still required to present every firstborn son to the Lord by paying a price to redeem him, as he belonged to the Lord. Mary and Joseph had gone to the temple to pay that price for their firstborn son, Jesus.  

So the scene was set for Simeon to meet his Savior, and when he did, “Simeon took him in his arms and praised God, saying: Sovereign Lord, as you have promised, you now dismiss your servant in peace.  For my eyes have seen your salvation, which you have prepared in the sight of all people, a light for revelation to the Gentiles and for glory to your people Israel” (v. 28-32).  Not only are these words a beautiful confession of Simeon’s faith, but they also serve as a wonderful proclamation of all that the infant child in his arms would accomplish.  So magnificent were Simeon’s words that God included them in his Holy Word, and has led the church to include them in regular worship for just about as long as Christians have been gathering for worship!  For these reasons, let us look carefully at these words and come to appreciate them more fully.

Simeon expressed the reason for his rejoicing in his song: “For my eyes have seen your salvation, which you have prepared in the sight of all people.”  With his own eyes, Simeon saw much more than just a baby; he saw his Savior. And, by his words, Simeon expresses the realization that the child in his arms was not only his Savior, but the Savior of all people. Jesus came for the salvation of every soul.  He would secure the salvation of every soul. Some teach that Jesus saves only those who accept him or have a strong enough faith or are generally pretty good Christians. Simeon reminds us that he came for all people. 

This truth is also emphasized by the words, “a light for revelation to the Gentiles.”  Throughout Advent and during Christmas we see and hear the recurring theme of Jesus as the Light of the world. Simeon echoes that theme with this very phrase. Jesus was a Light to reveal salvation not only to God’s Old Testament chosen people, the Israelites, but also to the Gentiles—to every nation on earth.  

But that didn’t in any way take away from what he meant to Israel. Israel could still make the claim that no other nation on earth could make: that Jesus came from their people, the people of Israel. Simeon said it like this: “for glory to your people Israel.”  Madonna was from my home town of Bay City, Michigan.  San Diegans can claim a number of famous people had their roots here. Only those of Jewish descent can claim the Savior as one of their own. Whether they acknowledge it by faith or not, Jesus is their greatest glory.

See how the God-with-us/Immanuel Savior affected Simeon! “Sovereign Lord, as you have promised, you now dismiss your servant in peace.”  With this phrase Simeon points out something that is unique to God—he keeps his word. God promised that Simeon would live to see his Savior and he did. Keeping promises is really what Christmas is all about. The Savior was born in Bethlehem because God kept his promise. 

The promise kept at Christmas carries a special weight to it for New Testament Christians, because that promise kept gives credibility to all of God’s promises that followed and continue to follow. The Savior was born, just as God promised, and so we know that he would live perfectly as our Substitute, just as God promised. He would die for us, just as God promised.  He would rise again from the dead, just as God promised. Finally, he will come again, just as God promised.

The irony of course is in how badly we, who do not keep promises, need the One who did.  One drawback of God’s Christmas promise is that it serves as another reminder of how bad we are at keeping our promises—promises to ourselves, to others, and to God.  “This year I’m going to get everything done early.  I’m going to eat less.  I’m going to spend less”  Broken, broken, and broken.  “This year we’re going to do something special as a family.  I’ll keep in better touch with my extended family over the holidays.”  Broken and broken.  “This year I’m going to follow through with my commitment to spending more time preparing spiritually.  I’m also going to spend more time in God’s house for worship.”  Broken and broken.  We evaluate our own inabilities to keep our own word, our own promises, and we quickly become aware of how much we needed the one who keeps his every promise, not the least of which is his promise to forget our sins through Christ Jesus. 

That same God is the one who had kept his promise to Simeon, and Simeon in his song then confirmed the peace that had swept over him: “you now dismiss your servant in peace.”  Many assume here that the dismissal to which Simeon referred was speaking of his departure from his earthly life to heaven.  Indeed this portion of Scripture has brought much comfort at the funerals of those who have died in Christ. Such an application is most certainly appropriate, especially given the way it is portrayed in the original language. Quite literally, Simeon said, “Now you release your slave, master.”  Picture a lifelong slave being freed from every labor and toil and the anguish associated with it.  How could such a situation bring about anything less than peace?

And here already we begin to understand and more fully appreciate why these words have been sung for centuries by Christians who have just received the Lord’s body and blood.  For what is it that we receive in that body and blood but release!  We receive release from the guilt of our sins.  We receive release from the heavy burdens of our own disobedience.  Yes, through the Lord’s Supper the chains of sin that bind us to the devil are smashed to pieces.  And as we return to our seats we know personally the very peace of which Simeon spoke in his song.  

It was a peace that a mom discovered unexpectedly. As a thunderstorm rumbled loudly throughout the night, her scared little girl came into her room to slip into her bed and snuggle up. As soon as she had done so, she fell back asleep. While her mother felt her gentle breathing and saw how peacefully she was sleeping, she had a realization. Her daughter didn’t come in and ask her to make the storm stop, she just wanted to be by her during it. How often in her own life had she prayed and pleaded for God to make the storms stop instead of simply seeking out God’s presence to be near her and get through those storms peacefully? 

In the year ahead, friends, you know there will be storms. During those times, with arms of faith, embrace the Prince of Peace like Simeon in the temple courts, and find peace and security. We don’t always need God to put a stop to the storms; we just need him to be near us through them. And he is. And he always will be every time we marvel at him like Simeon and like Mary and Joseph. 

We aren’t surprised to hear the reaction of Mary and Joseph to Simeon’s salvation song:  “The child’s father and mother marveled at what was said about him” (v. 33). Little did they know, they had just heard one of the most popular Christmas songs ever; so popular, in fact, that it has to be sung more often than just Christmas. It begs to be sung by Christians all over the world who experience the same peace that Simeon did—a peace that comes not only at Christmas, but whenever we receive the Lord’s Supper and all other times God’s Word assures us of our forgiveness.