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For Mothers Who Have Lost Children

Dear Father,
As we honor mothers this week in prayer, I pray today for mothers who have lost a child. Some mothers have endured agonizingly long bouts of sickness in their children, only to see them lose their battle. Others have lost children through sudden and unexpected tragedy. However that loss occurs, it brings with it a unique and painful kind of grief. 

When that pain is raw and recent, reassure those mothers that you grieve with them and that they are never alone. Give them space to mourn, and when the well intentioned words and condolences of others miss the mark, help mothers to receive them with patience and grace. When years have passed and the pain still lingers, begin to shift the recollection of past memories from being a source of pain to becoming treasured keepsakes in the heart. Where possible and as you see fit, dull the sharp sting of death even the slightest bit with the blessing of additional children. Finally, allow the Resurrection to foster a deeper appreciation for the hope mothers have in knowing that death doesn’t have the final say. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Mothers of Teenagers and Adult Children

Dear Father,
As we honor mothers this week in prayer, I pray today for mothers of teenagers and adult children. As our children grow, they become more independent. At times, especially during the teenage years, that independence and general season of life can be turbulent. This often results in added friction in the relationship between teenagers and mothers. A similar tension is not uncommon when children become adults. As they develop additional relationships in these later years, including the establishment of their own families, their dependence on mothers decreases. 

Nevertheless, lead all children, regardless of age, to honor their mothers, in keeping with the Fourth Commandment. While the role of mothers transitions from one season of their child’s life to the next, keep their special connection strong. Help children to always treasure the love and care of their mother. Help mothers to respect the relationship boundaries their children establish with spouses, careful not to overstep them. Grant both mother and child grace and patience, and guide them to navigate their relationship by seeking to understand the other’s perspective. Bless the bond of mother and child, no matter the age. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Mothers Doubling as Care-Givers

Dear Father,
As we honor mothers this week in prayer, I pray today for mothers who also carry the added responsibility of being an adult care-giver. Whether that role is by choice or out of necessity, caring for other adults while also caring for children of any age as a mother can easily test a person’s limitations. The challenges may vary depending on the nature of who is needing the care – parents, other aging family members, or a husband – but the burden remains especially heavy no matter what.

Give mothers in these scenarios a competent and caring support system, so that others can intervene and provide them with assistance or even insist that they take time for needed self-care. Make children aware of the added responsibility their mother has, so that they might be more sensitive and appreciative, even lending assistance when possible. Sustain these moms with your strength and perseverance, and nurture their faith so they see you as their rock and refuge. Bless their children and all others on on the receiving end of their care. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Working Mothers

Dear Father,
As we honor mothers this week in prayer, I pray today for working mothers. Whether working full-time or part-time, in the office or from home, the juggling act of being a working mom takes its toll in many ways. It’s not as easy as flipping a switch to go from mom mode to work mode and vice versa. Not only do the responsibilities themselves overlap over and need to be carried out, but the mental and emotional burdens are heavy, too.

Grant working mothers coworkers and employers who are both understanding and accommodating. In cases where additional assistance is necessary for childcare, provide whatever is needed. When working moms wrestle with the guilt of not being available for their children around the clock, release them from that guilt and assure them that you are always present, caring and providing for every child’s need. Keep work requirements from robbing them of the joys of motherhood, and give them sufficient rest to be able to carry out both roles well and to your glory. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Mothers of Children with Special Needs

Dear Father,
As we honor mothers this week in prayer, I pray today for mothers of children with special needs. The general responsibilities of motherhood are daunting on their own, but even more is required of moms raising children with special needs. Whether the needs of their children are physical, mental, emotional, or some combination thereof, give these mothers an abundance of strength and perseverance. When they are exhausted or near the point of breaking, generously replenish them with whatever they need. When their faith is tested and their days are filled with defiance or discouragement, lovingly remind them that your grace sees and is delighted with their faithful efforts. 

Graciously allow them to experience the many unique blessings that children with special needs demonstrate. Let their children exude a joyful innocence and bright smiles whenever possible. Let them show obedience, gratitude, and generous affection to their mothers. When such blessings are not able to be present in the child, let others take note of the hard work and dedication of these mothers, and express their appreciation and admiration accordingly. Finally, while no earthly recognition these mothers receive may ever adequately suffice, reassure them that their rich rewards of grace await them in heaven.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

Listen to the Shepherd’s Soothing Voice

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(John 10:22-30)

It may crack a little bit more frequently. It eventually becomes significantly softer. It struggles to convey the confidence, clarity, and coherence it did for so many decades. But even with those changes, whether drastic or subtle, you recognize your mother’s voice. It is so strongly imprinted on many of us that long after she may have passed away, you can still hear in your mind the unique sound of your mother’s voice.

For many of us, that special voice leaves or has left such an impression on us because we associate it with the characteristic care and compassion so often connected with mothers. They nurture(d) us, took care of our day-to-day needs, shuttled us here, there, and everywhere, and regularly check in on us to see how we’re doing. So when we hear her voice, we treasure it because it evokes all of those caring qualities. 

Yet not everyone can relate to this experience. For some, sadly, the voice of their mother, if ever heard again, would be too soon. It is a voice that evokes anything but pleasant emotions or memories. Abuse. Ridicule. Impossible standards. Never good enough. Or, it may be an unfamiliar sound altogether for those who never knew their mother after being given up for adoption, abandoned, or neglected in one way or another. To some, a mother’s voice is the sound of pain.

But there is another voice. There is a voice to be treasured even more than a mother’s voice. It is the voice of the Good Shepherd. Hear his voice on this Mother’s Day and always: “My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand” (v.27-28). What is so special about this voice? What is it that draws sheep to hear it? Why can we never get enough of it? 

Jesus says “I know them.” Think of how much that means to us. I was just reminded of this recently after worship. Extended family members had come along to church with one of our repeat guests. After I asked about how the family members felt about the service, guess what stood out the most? The music? Nope. The sermon? Nope. It was that I happened to remember their names after the service. It matters to us to matter to someone else that much, doesn’t it? When someone remembers our name, it means they took the time to know us. And who knows us better than the Good Shepherd? That’s part of why we long to hear his voice.

It’s also because “they follow me.” When you decide to follow someone (not in the social media sense), when really wanting to imitate or learn from someone or become like them – we are putting a lot of trust in that person. To willingly follow someone means I am trusting that person to not lead me astray or put me in harm’s way or lead me down some regrettable path. Since we don’t extend that level of trust to just anyone, it results in a deeper connection with those to whom we give it; those we willingly choose to follow. Since we trust the Good Shepherd enough to follow his paths for our life, we long to hear his voice.

And because we don’t just follow him for this life, but for eternal life, we long to hear his voice even more. “I give them eternal life,” Jesus said. We find that nowhere else! Search and study as much as we might, we will never find the guarantee or assurance of eternal life anywhere other than through Jesus. Why? Because only Jesus “give[s]” it. It is unearned. It is a gift.

We are naturally drawn to giveaways and to free stuff. Think of the last time you were at a community event or a farmer’s market. Your group split up and someone returned with a snack or a sample that they’re raving about. You ask how much it was and when they explain it was a free sample, a giveaway, you immediately ask where they got it from. We love free stuff! How much greater is the free gift of eternal life! And since it comes only through the Good Shepherd, we long to hear his voice.

But not everyone is interested in hearing that voice. Some wish to stifle it, as was the case on that winter day as Jesus walked in the temple courts. “The Jews who were there gathered around him, saying, ‘How long will you keep us in suspense? If you are the Messiah, tell us plainly’” (v.24). To be sure, they did their level best at trying to mask their intentions, but Jesus saw right through them. He knew they weren’t curious seekers in search of salvation, but that their intentions were quite sinister. They weren’t looking to hear words of life from the voice of their Good Shepherd, but rather the incriminating piece of evidence to put the final nail in the coffin of their case. They wanted to hear Jesus plainly claim to be the Messiah so they’d have all they needed to justify their pre-determined conviction of blasphemy. 

It reminds me of a humorous clip I’ve used in our membership class before. In it, Rowan Atkinson, the actor who plays “Mr. Bean,” recounts an incident in which someone out in public approached him to tell him that he looked an awful lot like the actor who plays Mr. Bean. Well, the more Mr. Atkinson claimed to actually be the actor, the more the individual refused to believe him. While he couldn’t get over how much they looked alike, the fan absolutely refused to believe that he could in fact be the actor who played Mr. Bean.

Jesus’ Jewish enemies tried and tried to get him to plainly claim to be the Messiah, yet even as he pointed to all the evidence that supported and proved that he was actually the Messiah, they refused to believe it. Why? Why were they so indignant, so set in their stubborn refusal to entertain that Jesus could, in fact, be the Messiah?

Jesus explained it for them (and for us!). “Jesus answered, ‘I did tell you, but you do not believe. The works I do in my Father’s name testify about me, but you do not believe because you are not my sheep’” (v.25-26). The problem was not with the voice, or even the Good Shepherd who was speaking, as if he had been unclear or mumbled or anything like that; no, the problem was on the listening side of the communication. Unbelieving ears are uninterested in the Good Shepherd’s voice. They aren’t his sheep.

What would happen if you ignored your mother’s voice? Typically, it does not end well. Either we find out the hard way through personal injury or the trouble we end up causing that we should have listened to mom’s voice, or mom has her certain disciplinary consequences that later on underscore that we would have been better off listening to her voice. Either way, although some are slower to learn it than others, we grow up learning that it is generally unwise to ignore mom’s voice. 

What happens if you refuse to listen to the Good Shepherd’s voice? If we aren’t being led by his voice, then we’re being led by someone else’s. And, although some are slower to learn it than others, we find out the hard way that ignoring the Good Shepherd’s voice results in a lot of unnecessary pain and hurt in life. Addiction. Adultery. Divorce. Rage. Bitterness. We don’t arrive at these things overnight, but get there by listening to other voices. The voice might belong to the world. The voice might be my own internal voice. It doesn’t matter – if the voice does not belong to the Good Shepherd or echo his, it will lead us down the wrong path of sin, away from the Good Shepherd and into danger. Every. Time.

And beyond just the worldly, temporal consequences of refusing to listen to the Good Shepherd’s voice, there are ultimately even more significant consequences. What’s the opposite of what Jesus’ sheep receive, the opposite of being given eternal life? Eternal death. What is the opposite of never perishing? Perishing in hell. Isn’t that the fate of all who are not Jesus’ sheep? If only the Jews who had approached Jesus believed the eternal warning attached to the words, “you are not my sheep!” If only people today realized the eternal consequences of those words, “you are not my sheep!”

But hear the Good Shepherd’s voice shine through in these words to his sheep. His voice isn’t filled with ultimatums for his sheep. It does not include veiled threats. It isn’t the voice of a bully or a goon coming to shake you down or manipulate you through fear or intimidation.

No, it is the tender voice of reassurance for the sheep, reassurance that sheep not only long to hear, but need to hear, because sheep are, well… sheep.

What an accurate picture for us! Sheep. How dumb we are! How slow to learn! How ignorant to think we know better! How foolish to repeat the same mistakes over and over again! How lost we sheep would be without the voice of the Good Shepherd! 

He speaks to his sheep the words we hear nowhere else. “I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all; no one can snatch them out of my Father’s hand” (v.28-29). Perish? Never! Snatched out of his hand? No one can – not even the devil himself! . 

But don’t take this assurance as license to go back to being a dumb sheep who thinks there is no danger in running astray! No, stay by the Shepherd’s voice. Follow it. Be a smart sheep. Be a sanctified sheep that cares more about always being within earshot of the Shepherd, never too far away to hear his voice. Let his be the soothing voice of safety, security, and salvation.

Thank God for mothers who guided us to learn to hear his voice. Thank God for mothers who care enough – no matter how old we are! – to make sure we are still listening to the Good Shepherd’s soothing voice! 

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For First-Time Mothers

Dear Father,
As we honor mothers this week in prayer, I pray today for first-time mothers. As they experience the mixed feelings of joy and fear over this new responsibility, free them from the worry and anxiety of feeling as if they have to have all of the answers. No mother has ever attained the status of perfection when it comes to motherhood, and no one ever will. There will be mistakes and things will go wrong, but remind them that you are able to provide and protect their child at all times.   

As they get more and more used to carrying out these new responsibilities of motherhood, alleviate their concerns and raise their confidence level. See to it that they have a network of support through family and friends who can help and assist when needed. Grant these new moms opportunities for rest and self-care. Let the husbands of first-time mothers be especially aware, both of the child and the mother’s needs, as they navigate this new chapter of their lives together. Lead them to be attentive to their child’s spiritual needs, prioritizing baptism, praying, and planning for continued spiritual growth.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Mothers in the Home

Loving Lord,
Thank you for the special blessings you bring into the family through mothers. By your own masterful design, you uniquely created mothers with a womb to wonderfully weave together the masterpiece of human life. From conception to birth, the marvelous biological interaction between mother and the child you are knitting together leaves us in awe. Truly we are fearfully and wonderfully made!

The blessings of motherhood continue long after children are born. Through mothers children learn to experience unconditional love. You use mothers to nurture children and to meet their daily needs, often while also managing household and family activities. Provide patience and strength to mothers when they are weary. Lead family members to demonstrate gratitude and express their thanks often so that mothers feel appreciated. Reward faithful, dedicated mothers with obedient and respectful children, and grant them husbands who support and encourage them in their essential role as much as possible. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen.