DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Lead Others Spiritually

Faithful Father,
You have made us your disciples by your grace, through your Word. Discipleship includes continuing to personally grow in that grace through your Word. And, as men, our discipleship also includes leading our wives and families in their growth, too. I have so much room to grow! Guide and direct me first and foremost to grow in my own personal faith, so that as I do, I am better equipped to lead others. Since discipling includes discipline, grant me the motivation and discipline to prioritize my spiritual leadership. Dispel my fears with faith, and fill me with the Spirit’s zeal and confidence to embrace my call to lead. Where I see my own shortcomings, help me see your strength. Where I see my inadequacy, help me see your infallibility. Build others up through me so that we all may boast more in you.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

For the Ongoing Pursuit of Growth

Loving Lord,
When you called me to faith, you called me to a life of growth. While our physical bodies are limited by how much they can grow before they start to decline, our faith can always grow, no matter our age or circumstances. However, this kind of spiritual growth doesn’t happen accidentally, but intentionally. It happens when we are deliberate about prioritizing your Word in our lives. And, while we may tend to think of growth happening in ideal settings and surroundings, it often happens in scenarios that are anything but. Adversity and affliction can be accelerators of growth if we let them, as those are the experiences which easily strip us of self-reliance and steer us toward our Savior. No matter what season of life we’re in, give us faith eyes that see favorable opportunities to grow closer to you. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

Gospel Growth

(Colossians 1:1-14)

We want to know if something is working. Depending on what it is, we have different metrics to help us determine whether or not it is. If a person has car trouble and either replaces a part or has the mechanic fix it, we’d expect to be able to tell because whatever sound or warning light used to be going on is no longer an issue. The plan you have in place to drop a few pounds should be able to be verified as working by the shrinking number on the scale. You can tell a certain product works if it delivers the results promised. We want to know if something is working, and there are ways for us determine if that’s the case.

Does it work the same way with the gospel? How do you tell if it’s working? On the one hand, if a person looks at the general moral compass of our country, they might determine that the gospel – and by extension, the churches responsible for proclaiming it – isn’t working. After all, how could so many call bad what God calls good, and call good what God calls bad? But because this is such a common occurrence, we might conclude that most churches today aren’t preaching the gospel. Because if they were, wouldn’t our society include more good people?

So are we looking at the wrong metrics? Expecting wrong or unrealistic results? How can we tell if the gospel – and the church proclaiming it – is working?

Let us be encouraged by the words of Paul, which are every bit as true today as they were the day he first wrote them to the Colossians. “The gospel is bearing fruit and growing throughout the whole world—just as it has been doing among you since the day you heard it and truly understood God’s grace” (v.6). The gospel grows. It bears fruit. That’s what it does. It’s what it has always done in the past and it’s what it will always do in the future. Where, though, does this growth happen? Here. There. Everywhere.

What do we know about Paul’s relationship with the Christians in Colossae? In addition to it being one of the letters he wrote while in prison, it was also somewhat unique in that Paul was writing to a church that he had not personally started or even visited. As Paul explained in verse seven, it was Epaphras who had started and pastored the church. And, according to the details of the rest of the letter, there was concern over a false teaching that was getting around and threatening the gospel which Epaphras had been responsible for preaching and teaching. 

What Paul was personally familiar with was the fruit the gospel was bearing in all of the places he had proclaimed it. The prolific church planter that he was, Paul had many Christians and congregations on his heart and mind at all times. Not only that, but as leaders were trained and equipped to keep the gospel ministry going, he received regular reports about gospel growth in so many places. So he knew firsthand about how the gospel was “bearing fruit and growing throughout the whole world.”

And, Paul was excited that the same thing could be said about what the gospel was doing among and through the believers in Colossae. Paul wasn’t just trying to pump them up with encouraging reports coming in from all over, but also reminding them of the work that was happening in their midst ever since it had first reached them. Theirs was one of the churches Paul was celebrating. He had heard news of the obvious evidence of their faith in action and prayed that it would continue as their faith continued to grow. 

Do you know how much fruit the gospel is bearing all over the world today? Even if we focus just on the work we’re doing together in WELS, we see so many reasons to celebrate! This year we are celebrating that our church body has been carrying out gospel ministry for 175 years. This 175th Anniversary highlights that for almost 200 years, we have been establishing churches and schools as hubs for gospel ministry. In addition to the thousands of congregations and mission efforts across the United States, we are involved in mission efforts in about 50 countries, and currently looking into more than 15 possible new mission fields. Our world-wide ministry allows us to spread the gospel through digital and printed publications in other languages, providing medical aid and disaster relief, and even training future pastors through our seminaries in other countries. 

But, let’s not be too presumptuous that we assume the only gospel work God is doing throughout the world is through WELS. While we certainly desire to see the gospel preached and taught correctly and without any error – and rightly so! – we rejoice that the good news is delivered even when the “packaging” leaves much to be desired. In other words, even where this teaching or that teaching may not be inline with a given doctrine in Scripture, the good news of Jesus as the Savior from sin for all people is still made known. So yes, through WELS and other Christian churches, “the gospel is bearing fruit and growing throughout the whole world.”

And, as Paul wrote to the Colossians, so he could say to us: “just as it has been doing among you since the day you heard it and truly understood God’s grace.” As we’ll celebrate very soon, God has been at work with his gospel in and through Shepherd of the Hills (SOTH) for sixty years! That is no small thing! 

What fruit would you point to evidence of God’s work? Paul provided a lengthy description of what gospel growth looks like. “We continually ask God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all the wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives, so that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, and giving joyful thanks to the Father…” (v.9b-12a). 

Where have we seen any of this at SOTH? How many eternal lives have been altered directly because of the gospel through our church and school? How many students have been trained and educated in Scripture through our school and the schools we support? How many have been wrapped up in Christ’s righteousness through baptism? How many struggling souls have been refreshed and restored after having received Jesus’ body and blood?  How many souls have been ushered across the finish line into eternal life while bearing the SOTH name? Will these blessings continue? They will if we keep the gospel front and center in all we do, because that’s what the gospel does: it grows. It bears fruit. Here. There. Everywhere. 

And, the gospel can bear fruit in unexpected ways – not just under our own roof, but also on the frontlines of ministry. Sometimes that fruit is born out of what might come across as failure. After carrying out gospel ministry in the Fallbrook area for fifty years through its church and school, our sister congregation in the last couple of years made the difficult decision to close the doors of its ministry. One could easily conclude that the gospel had become ineffective or was no longer bearing fruit. However, it appears that God is simply taking what he yielded from that gospel ministry to bear fruit in a new orchard.

From the financial assets of one ministry, our sister congregation has passed along the resources both to our congregation and to our church body to work together in expanding ministry around San Diego County. In addition to a substantial gift given to WELS for that purpose, the saints in Fallbrook also designated a gift to our own congregation to establish a plan for exploring mission work. We are currently working with our various mission planners to determine a plan for carrying out mission work in the Menifee area.

What could that look like? How could God bear fruit through that gospel ministry? How could it contribute to and collaborate with our existing congregations in Temecula and Wildomar, as well as our high school, CLHS, to bear fruit in gospel ministry? What will our role in that gospel effort be? While we may not have a clear picture just yet, we do have confidence that the gospel will bear fruit, because that’s what it does. It grows. It bears fruit. Here. There. Everywhere – including the potential mission field of Menifee!

We’ll keep after this if we continually remind ourselves of the power the gospel has in our lives and potentially in the lives of all who hear it. Remember who we are! “[The Father] has qualified you to share in the inheritance of his holy people in the kingdom of light. For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins” (v.12b-14).

When we remember this, we don’t want to walk, but run with the gospel! When we rejoice that our doubts about how effective the gospel is and our complacency surrounding it have been cancelled and forgiven, we’re renewed and stirred! Why should we have this privilege? Because the Father qualified us through the work of his Son. Knowing that we belong to his kingdom of light, having been rescued from the darkness of unbelief, we want to expand that kingdom to include many others – here, there, everywhere!

How do we know if the gospel works? It’s simple. Open your eyes. It’s here. There. Everywhere. Bearing fruit all over. And it will continue to work and bear fruit, because that’s what it does – the gospel grows.

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Become a Man of Prayer

Ever-Present Father,
You are always willing to bend your ear to our prayers. But your willingness to hear our prayers fails to be matched by our willingness to offer them. Too often prayer is a last resort. Too frequently we mindlessly mumble words of prayer while our minds are elsewhere. Too many times our prayers are not offered up to you with the mountain-moving trust that you deserve.

So it is with good reason that we routinely begin our prayers with repentance, confessing that our prayer lives themselves are not worthy of your time or attention. Forgive me and hear my prayers not for my own sake, but for Jesus’ sake. And since there are so many ways I can grow in my prayer life, I simply ask you to bless me with progress and growth in any one of them. As I focus my attention on the privilege of prayer this week, make me more and more a man of prayer.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

For Christian Schools

Lord God,
Thank you for schools that provide a Christian Education. When congregations are able to offer elementary schools as a part of their ministry, both the congregation and the community are richly blessed. The standards are high and the flexibility of curriculum choices allows them to avoid certain controversial content. However, there is no greater benefit than Jesus that Christian schools are able to offer. To nurture and equip not just the mind, but also hearts of faith provides an eternal reward to students. For high schools and colleges that allow students to continue on this path of spiritual instruction, thank you. 

Through these schools, your impact often goes beyond the student into the home, so I pray that your Spirit stretches his reach into the hearts of not just students in school, but their families as well. And, because teaching young minds is no small task, I also ask that you equip teachers and professors in these schools with patience, wisdom, and compassion for their students. Let your light shine brightly in them, so that they put the love of Jesus on display for their students and other faculty members to see. Continue to use Christian schools to build up your church and equip believers for this life and the next.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Mature in My Faith

Dedicated Savior,
Your grace is not just what brought me to faith, but also what keeps me in the faith and grows my faith. But I so easily take it all for granted. I let other preoccupations become priorities. I get busy doing things that seem urgent and important right now, but have no bearing on my spiritual health or my eternity. 

In your gracious forgiveness, both wash me and work in me to desire more of the things you desire for me. If I am to be a godly man of faith, direct me to your Word so that through it, you can create in me a hunger for spiritual growth that seeks to be satisfied by time spent with you. Let your Word dwell in me richly each day, develop a disciplined prayer life in me, and deepen my drive to engage with and commit to my church family and community. Make these requests a reality, so that through them you may grow me into the mature man of God you created me to be.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

For Brothers in the Faith

Dear Jesus,
I am grateful that you haven’t called me to follow in your footsteps alone, but have always brought brothers in the Christian faith to walk alongside me. While fellowshipping and staying connected with fellow Christians in general is a blessing, there is a unique friendship shared between men of faith. That relationship is even more impactful when guys share a particularly tight bond. David had Jonathan. Jesus had his inner circle of disciples. We have those who know us well enough to call us out and correct us when we need a rebuke or admonishment. But those same individuals are also right there to celebrate when they notice the spiritual progress that you work in us. 

These connections nurture accountability and help foster a growth mindset. Guys are better when we grow together, rather than allowing ourselves to go it alone and fall into isolation. Thank you for the men you have put in my life who care about my soul and spiritual health enough to call me out, take me under their wing, or whatever other good you may work in my life through them. Continue to bless Christian men everywhere with other Christian men nearby to walk with you and live for you together. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Grow This Year

Gracious God,
As I begin a new year, I do so with the confidence that your presence and your peace go with me. No matter what experiences or encounters wait for me in the year ahead, none of them will overwhelm or overcome me with you by my side. Though we will face troubles, you assure us that you have overcome the world on our behalf.

Grant me growth in my faith over the course of the new year. Let my priorities and commitments, together with my management of your gift of time, reflect my desire to develop more as your disciple. Anything that matters in life hinges on my relationship with you, and you promise that when I seek you and your righteousness before everything else, you will take care of everything else. Stretch and strengthen my trust in you this year and keep your kingdom and its success continually on my heart and mind. Let your grace abound in me and yield abundant fruit through me.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Supply What Is Lacking in My Faith

Sanctifying Spirit,
Though faith as small as a mustard seed is sufficient to cling to the work of Jesus for salvation, do not let me be content with a seed-size faith. Rather, provide for me what is lacking in my faith. Where my faith lacks knowledge, provide it through your Word. When my faith doubts and wavers, steady it with the rock-solid certainty of your promises that never fail. When I am reluctant to put my faith into action, place me in situations where I cannot help but do so. While it isn’t the size of my faith that saves, but the object – Jesus – I nevertheless pray for you to continue fanning into flame this gift of faith, so that I may be more deeply rooted in you and never shaken loose by Satan or sin. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

Word Grown

(Isaiah 55:6-11)

Based on how our food is labeled and packaged, where it comes from matters to us. Some people care more than others if their food is organic. Others want to know if it’s locally grown. Is it genetically modified? Farm grown? When someone drops by with home-grown fruit or veggies, you know it’s going to taste just a little bit better. When we’re talking about meat, plant-based or lab-grown options will continue to be a part of the discussion. We pay attention to how things are grown.

Planted by the Word.

Christians are grown, too. But there aren’t a variety of options when it comes to how Christians are grown; there is just one. Christians are Word grown. Every single one of us came to faith in Jesus Christ in one way and in one way only: through the Word.

That Word may have come in the form of a promise attached to the washing of water in baptism. That Word may have worked in us as little ones who learned Bible stories that pointed us to our Savior, Jesus. That Word may have worked repentance, forgiveness, and the joy of salvation in us as adults whose skepticisms and doubts were put to rest through Bible study or one-on-one discussions of biblical truths with a Christian. However our faith was worked in us, in each an every case, it was always worked through the Word of God. It’s how you became a Christian. 

If you have faith, then, it was worked by the Word. But, why doesn’t the Word always work? Why doesn’t it always bring people to faith every time it is heard, read, or studied? We could offer any number of pretty rational or logical reasons, but at some point, there comes a time and place when we simply have to acknowledge our limitations.

Isaiah reflected on those limitations when describing God in verses 8-9. “‘For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,’ declares the Lord. ‘As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.’” God is God and we are not.

While we may think it unfair or resent God for not revealing everything to us, is it prudent or realistic to presume that we should be on the same level as God? If we suppose so, is that because we are guilty of thinking so highly of ourselves or so little of God? Does he owe us an explanation or understanding of why and how he operates? 

Nevertheless, just because our thoughts and ways are not on par with God’s, that doesn’t mean God has completely left us guessing as to what his thoughts and ways are. We simply rest easy in knowing the basics – that God “wants all people to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth” (1 Timothy 2:4). This truth keeps us from spending our time distracted by what we don’t know so that we can focus on what we do know: God wants all people to be saved, and the only way he saves is through the Word. 

There is another explanation as to why the Word may at times appear to us to be ineffective. Sometimes, it’s because we’re not actually sowing the seed of the Word, but rather talking about it. Do you know the difference?

If it appears that my unbelieving friend’s life is coming unraveled and I point out to him that he needs Jesus in his life, have I sowed the seed of the Word? Well, not entirely. I may have taken the first step toward doing so, but at that point alone the Word has not been sown. I have made reference to a name in that Word, but the Word itself has not been sown.

Or consider your bumper sticker that says “Jesus saves.” It is true, yes. But it is incomplete and not clear enough to the point. The person reading your bumper sticker may conclude that you are a Christian, knowing enough to equate Jesus with Christianity. However, the sticker reveals nothing about who Jesus is, how he saves, who he saves, or why it matters that Jesus saves. The seed hasn’t fully been sown.

This point is not so much a criticism as a much-needed clarification. This friends, is where we can make a difference. We can be more intentional about sowing the seed rather than just talking about it. In other words, we can – and we must – make certain we are clearly communicating law (which exposes our sin) and gospel (the good news of our Savior).

A gardener can go to great lengths to till the soil and prepare it for the seed. However, once the soil has been made ready, the seed still has to be planted. If all the gardener does is tell others what great soil she has and speaks of the superior quality of seeds she has, nothing will grow. The seed must be planted. It must be sown. 

In the same way, if all the gardener does after the soil has been made ready is assure others that he has plenty of good seed to plant in his fields, this, too will yield no harvest. Whether the gardener speaks of the praise of the soil or the praise of his superior seed, one thing has been left undone: the seed has not been planted in the soil. It must be sown.

Where is this seed sown? Sure, it is sown in churches, Bible classes, or classrooms by called pastors and teachers. Praise God for that sowing! But how many fields lie fallow if only pastors and teachers sow the Word in those places?

God’s vision included a far greater harvest than just those fields! He knows his Word works wherever it is sown by whomever sows it – including you. And you are qualified to do it.

You have unique relationships with non-believers. There is your soil. You also have the message of the gospel, the good news that Jesus died to save sinners. There is your seed. Sow it. Go confidently beyond the step of simply talking about the seed and sow the seed. Start with highlighting the blessings Jesus fills your own life with, and point them to how he can do the same in theirs. Plant the Word. It’s the only way others will ever come to faith.

Produce through the Word.

And do so with the confidence that it will work. Crops need rain. Some states right now are in a drought. Other states are flooding. What determines this? Rain. With all of our advancements and the amazing technologies that exist, it is such a striking reminder that we have zero control over the one thing essential to crop growth: rain. Without it, crops die. Crops need rain.

Christians need the Word. Without it, Christians die. The seed planted may sprout and grow, but if not watered by the Word, it will die. That same Word that was planted in you to bring you to faith is the thing that produces a harvest in your life and in Christ’s kingdom. The Lord promises you it will work.

Isaiah described it like this: “As the rain and the snow come down from heaven, and do not return to it without watering the earth and making it bud and flourish, so that it yields seed for the sower and bread for the eater, so is my word that goes out from my mouth: It will not return to me empty, but will accomplish what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it” (v.10-11).

We sometimes make the mistake of presuming that our knowledge of the Word is adequate, that once we know it, it has done its work by providing us with the information we need to apply it to our lives. Well then, why do you continue to sin if you already know the information in the Word? You know you shouldn’t lie or steal. You know you shouldn’t get drunk. You know sex is reserved for husbands and wives alone. You know your bitterness and anger are unjustified. You know all of these things from the Word… yet you still do them. If the Word’s method of working was merely to provide information to set you on the track of holiness, I think we’d have to conclude that the Word is pretty ineffective. 

But the problem is not that the Word is ineffective. Rather, the problem is that we fail to take God’s promise to heart and keep putting the Word to work. It doesn’t just work informationally – by giving us a list of do’s and dont’s; it works supernaturally, by continually crushing the sinner in us and awakening the saint.

The law keeps accusing and killing us while the gospel restores and renews us. The Spirit works supernaturally through the Word as we marvel at the reality of being baptized children of God. As we take and eat the food of forgiveness in Holy Communion. As we hear and believe the faith-fueling forgiveness announced again and again through the Word. This is not mere information; this is a supernatural transformation that the Spirit produces through the Word. In each and all of these ways the Word works in our hearts to reveal to us the endless ocean of forgiveness that completely engulfs all of our sin. 

Understand then, why Isaiah gives us this encouragement: “Seek the Lord while he may be found; call on him while he is near. Let the wicked forsake their ways and the unrighteous their thoughts. Let them turn to the Lord, and he will have mercy on them, and to our God, for he will freely pardon” (v.6-7). Free pardon. Mercy. These are the gifts of God earned for us through Christ and delivered to us through the Word. How could we forsake this Word, this pardon, this mercy?

Quite the opposite! Let us return to it again and again, so that this endless mercy and free pardon work in us to produce an abundant harvest in Christ’s kingdom – both in our personal lives and in the lives of others. 

Do you believe it will actually work in your own life? I suppose you could keep stumbling in the same sin over and over for the rest of your life and keep justifying it to others by explaining that’s just the way you are. Or, you could allow the Word to do what it does and work supernaturally on your heart so that you experience more victories in this or that area of life, and yes, even overcome certain inclinations or temptations. That same Word builds up your faith to lean more on God on less on excusing your inadequacies and shortcomings.

Do you believe it will actually work in the lives of others? Rather than being so surprised when the Word works in the lives of others, what if we were instead more surprised when it didn’t? In other words, if we’re going to make a mistake – as if this could ever be considered a mistake – what if we over-sowed the seed? What if we assumed it would work in the lives of others who so desperately needed it that we always sowed it rather than presuming others have already heard it or would probably just reject it? The more you sow it, the more it works, and the greater the harvest. 

Christian, are you budding and flourishing in your life? You can be. Test God in this and see if these words of Isaiah are actually true. See if the planted Word produces – in your life and in the lives of others. Let us embrace this central defining characteristic of what it means to be a Christian: that the Word permeates our lives and that the Holy Spirit uses it to produce and flourish in and through us.