DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Appreciate that Unity Doesn’t Require Uniformity

Dear Jesus,
As believers, help us remember that unity does not mean uniformity. We pray for unity in carrying out our mission and remaining faithful to biblical doctrine and practice. But we can also appreciate that those priorities will not necessarily look the same everywhere. Different groups and individuals will have a variety of opinions and ideas for how to follow through with those unified priorities. We celebrate that so much in our lives falls under the realm of Christian freedom, which will naturally result in variety from one place to the next. At the same time, being unified doesn’t mean that I abuse my Christian freedom to drive my own agenda. Rather, I put “we” before “me” in your church. Help me rejoice in our unity, while always being able to distinguish that unity from uniformity. Love for you, Lord, and for my neighbor, compels it.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

For the Willingness to Be Flexible

Selfless Savior,
When situations call for it, grant me a willing and gentle spirit to be appropriately flexible. By nature, I can be set in my ways, making it easy to dig my heels in when I am required to step out of my comfort zone. I would prefer that others see the wisdom of doing things my way and just let me call the shots. When I feel that my way is the best way, give me the humble curiosity to consider alternative views and to welcome suggestions or counsel from others. Give me a willingness to defer to others and to sacrifice my own personal preferences for their sake. Let my flexibility serve as an example to inspire others to be more malleable and adaptable in their interactions, too, as the gospel frees us to be. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

For Flexibility

Loving Father,
While structure and routine in our lives provide stability and security, there are times and seasons in our lives that also require flexibility. Help me identify these situations when they arise, and give me both the discernment and the willingness to be appropriately flexible. Keep me from avoiding each extreme: being either too rigid with routine or too flaky in my flexibility.

Direct me also to avoid forcing flexibility on others or changing just for the sake of change. As I assess what any given situation calls for, remind me to give consideration to the needs of others who might be affected. When adaptability is called for, let me proceed with patience and caution for the benefit of those who might struggle more with any changes. Allow flexibility and adaptability to remain blessings by always being implemented lovingly and appropriately. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen.