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Picked for a Purpose

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(1 Peter 2:9-12)

The lone remaining member of the family is the only one to have survived the car wreck. It took the lives of everyone else in her family, leaving her to spend the rest of her life wondering, “Why me?” Why, of everyone in the family, was she the one who was spared? Veterans who have come home to their families after war have felt the same nagging question when reflecting on all of their friends who were not as fortunate to return: “Why me?” “Why me?” is also sure to shape the thoughts of the patient who was just told it’s terminal after leaving the follow-up appointment with his oncologist.

The answer to the “Why me?” questions in those scenarios is this: we don’t know. God hasn’t revealed his specific answer to those situations in his Word. The Bible doesn’t explain why it wasn’t another family member who lived, why the surviving veteran wasn’t KIA and others were, or why the tumor wasn’t found to be benign. We can speculate all we want, but that will never satisfy us if we demand an answer that ultimately will remain known only to God.

However, just because we don’t know the specific answer to those specific scenarios doesn’t mean that everything remains unknown to us. We can direct our thoughts to what we do know about God and his promises in his Word and apply those to our situation. As we do that, the Holy Spirit sheds light on some possible answers to those questions, “Why me?” In one case, God may have allowed that tragedy for the purpose of uniquely qualifying that individual to comfort others who experience something similar. In another case, the loss may be what God uses to draw someone closer to him in faith. God shapes and refines us most often not through ease and comfort, but through hardship and adversity.

Whether or not we have endured any experiences related to those mentioned, we do have answers to another “why me?” question. It’s one most believers have considered at one time or another: why did God choose me? Why am I a believer? Why not some other religion or belief? Why Christianity? Why am I a Christian?

The answer? You were picked for a purpose. Actually, you’ll discover many purposes if you read through the whole Bible. But we’re going to give our attention to the two purposes revealed in the verses from 1 Peter. One of those purposes is very well known to just about every believer. And we’ll get to that one. 

But the other purpose is no less beautiful, even if it is not as well known. I believe that this purpose, if not only known, but embraced, believed, and lived, has the potential to significantly alter the lives of those who hear it.

Some of you know it; others, not so well. Others know it, but have not combined it with the faith to change their outlook on life. When I say this purpose can be life-changing for people, I mean it. It can eliminate the need for pills. It can result in the cancellation of the remaining counseling sessions. It can improve relationships.

Do I have your attention? Are you ready for it? Do you want to know what this purpose is for which God picked you? Read 1 Peter 2:9 with again, but stop after the fourth comma. “But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession,…” Why did God pick you? To be his. That purpose stands on its own. Yes, there is much involved in living out our callings as Christians, but we cannot zip right past this purpose just to get busy with the doing. We have to bask in the “being.” 

And we have our choice! Who doesn’t like choices? We want options. We want things our way, the way we like them. So God puts together a list, and although all of them are true for believers, some may have more meaning than others. Think of the individual who has lived life always being overlooked or passed over for someone else. Not by God! No, because God chose us – he didn’t settle for us or get stuck with us, but chose us. And “a royal priesthood” carries with it a social status that some have never experienced, having been born into what they perceive to be a low rung of the socio-economic ladder. The believer with a tender conscience, crushed by the slightest sin or slip-up, is part of a “holy” nation. And the person from a broken home or who was adopted and perhaps has always struggled with feelings of being unwanted is God’s own possession. You were picked for a purpose: to be God’s!

We heard all about this in my last sermon post. Does that mean I shouldn’t be repeating the same thing again? Am I so unoriginal that I have to regurgitate the same stuff week after week? How about this? I’ll stop repeating it when 1), the Bible quits bringing it up, and 2) you start believing it. When those two things happen, then I’ll give it a rest; I’ll quit repeating the same thing.

But until then, hear it again: you are special. God used Peter to call you his “special possession.” And yes, that is what you are! And yes, that is one of the purposes for which God picked you!

And it sinks in more when we recall how drastically different our natural status before God ought to have been. Our natural arrogance of denying there’s a God or turning from him should have classified us as a “rejected” people. Our boorish behavior and classless treatment of others is a far cry from any designation of royalty. Our hatred and unholiness speak for themselves. Peter reminded us in this way: “Once you were not a people, but now you are the people of God; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy” (v.10). 

But grace doesn’t call us what we are by nature, but what God has picked us for. Grace doesn’t force us to live under the labels we earned for ourselves, but calls us what God has made us. Chosen. Royalty. Holy. His prized possession. That’s what you were picked for.

This life-changing truth can impact everything in your life: how you view God, how you view yourself, and how you view others.

If it’s true that God feels that way about me – that he picked me not out of obligation or as some random name out of a hat, but because he deliberately, willingly, knowingly wanted me to be his, then that reality absolutely affects how I think and feel about God. There is no one and nothing in my life that could ever matter more! Someone who feels that way about me doesn’t have to ask for or demand my love and loyalty in return, because he’s already got it. 

And, if the Almighty God calls me all of these things, and backs it all up through the redeeming work of Jesus on my behalf, then it also shapes how I feel about me. Whose opinion of me matters more than that? Not someone else’s. Not even my own! So if the One who knows me better than I even know myself feels that way about me – and my best or worst days have no bearing on it, then how can I feel anything but positive about the person looking back at me in the mirror?

If God calls me his chosen, royalty, holy, prized possession, isn’t it the height of arrogance to think I know better than he does and think so little of or so negatively about myself? There’s simply no place for such a view. I need to start seeing myself as he does.

Finally, when I know how my loving God feels about me, which positively influences how I feel about me, then it also changes how I view others. I don’t need to pour myself into people pleasing (at least not for the purpose of earning the praise or affection of others!). I don’t need to pretend I can get everyone to like me. I don’t need to stress out over finding Mr. or Mrs. Right when I know it has zero impact on how God feels about me. And, I start to view others the way God views me. The bitterness, resentment, animosity, hatred, indifference, etc. that I may have felt about certain individuals or in general toward certain groups begins to disappear. It is replaced by an increasingly genuine desire to love them as God loves me and to want them to know how much God loves them, too. 

Lo and behold, that brings us to the second purpose for which God picked us. Recall early on that I mentioned two purposes Peter provides in these verses. The second is more familiar, and it’s found after the comma where we stopped earlier. “But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light” (v.9).

You – chosen, royalty, holy, prized possession of God, you – were picked also for this purpose: to “declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.” You were picked to talk up God, to make him known, to let others know who he really is. That means we’re not content to let whatever hair-brained or half-baked ideas about God that others have drummed up in their own minds or regurgitated from some other teacher or teaching go unchecked. We simply treasure God and that other person too much to allow anyone or any teaching to falsely misrepresent him. 

The Bible’s doctrines and teachings are absolutely essential – after all, they’re how our understanding of and relationship with God grows. However, too many people choose to be so put off by the “rules” and teachings of the Bible that they’ve never actually taken the time to get to know the God of the Bible. When unbelievers are consistently quick to explain that they can’t believe because they don’t agree with this or that teaching, all they’re revealing is that they’ve never really gotten to know God first. They’re turned off by the teachings, but why should we expect anything else if they don’t know the Teacher? They have not come to know the One who reveals himself as the embodiment of love! 

Peter seemed to be aware of this, since he didn’t write that the purpose for which we were picked was to argue or debate others into the kingdom by proving the validity, the wisdom, or the correctness of all of the Bible’s teachings, but by declaring the praises of God.

Praise who he is and what he’s done. Lead others to get to know who God is – the gracious, merciful, patient, loving God who has sacrificed so much to demonstrate the depth of his love for us. You are uniquely equipped to declare those praises to others! Not because you went to the Seminary or aced a class or had some intense, in-depth training, but because you know from experience what it’s like to have been called out of darkness into his wonderful light. You know how wonderful it is. You, therefore, are as qualified as anyone to declare to others the praises and promises of God!

And one last thing. Please, literally for the love of God, please back up your words with the way you live your life. “Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us” (v.12). Others aren’t just listening to the words that come out of your mouth. They are paying attention to your life to see if it validates your words.

If the impression they get from you is that grace means it doesn’t really matter how a person lives, how is that any different from how they’re already living? They already live however they want to. They’re already doing whatever they want. If all your talk about Jesus and faith has not resulted in any noticeable change in your life, then why should they be drawn to a life that looks no different from theirs? No, “live such good lives” that the quality and character of your life stands out so much they can’t help but be drawn to know more about the God who made that change in you. 

Why me? Why you? You were picked for a purpose – to be known by God and to make God known. He picked you to make you his own – chosen, royalty, holy, prized possession – and to make him known. Others are wrestling with “Why me?” for countless reasons. Give them the best answer to that question. Make known to them the One who has done everything to make them his own, too.

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

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To See the Darkness in the World and in Me

Light of the World,
The world is a dark place. It is steeped in the darkness of sin and unbelief. I see this darkness in headlines and breaking news far too frequently. But, even more troubling than that, I see it in myself as well. I am no stranger to the shadows, since they emanate from within me. Though I am forgiven and set free by your grace, I still battle against the sinful flesh that craves to cover the world in darkness. Help me to see myself through the lens that is the light of your salvation, so that I become more and more interested not in dispersing the darkness, but in dispelling it. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

God with Us in the Mess

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(Isaiah 9:1-7)

What. A. Year. The word “darkness” in our Lesson from Isaiah sums it up pretty well.

Novel coronavirus, COVID-19. Pandemic. Historic job loss and unemployment records. Lockdowns. Stay at home orders. Mask mandates. Isolation. Darkness.

George Floyd. “I can’t breathe.” Almost 8,000 BLM demonstrations and protests over a three-month period. Rioting and looting. Businesses burned down and destroyed. Racism. White privilege. White power. Proud boys. Police brutality. “Defund the police.” Darkness. 

Politics. Election. Debate debacles. $13 billion spent – more than double what was spent in previous election. Conspiracy. Social media censoring. Fake news and voter fraud. Division. Darkness.

Record-breaking tropical storms and hurricanes along the Atlantic Coast. Major rain and flooding in the Midwest. Record-breaking stretches of heat in the Southwest. Raging wildfires in Colorado and California – the largest ever in each state. Hazardous air quality. Literally, darkness.

“Nevertheless, there will be no more gloom for those who were in distress… The people walking in darkness have seen a great light; on those living in the land of deep darkness a light has dawned” (Is. 9:1-2). Light! A great light! No more gloom for those who were in distress! Light shines in the darkness! Hope! Goodness! Possibility! Rescue! Newness! Light bundles all of these together as it drowns out the darkness! The world is not trapped in never-ending night! Daylight has dawned! Bright has replaced night! 

And it has all already happened! What Isaiah was referring to has already taken place. Christ has been born. Our Savior has been born. The perfection needed for our assurance of a home in heaven has been earned. The price required as payment for our sin has been paid! He died the death we deserved and rose to give us a life that we never deserved! It all happened. It’s a done deal. The cry of “It is finished!” from the cross meant the little child born in Bethlehem had completed his mission. The One whose name means “Savior” lived up to his billing. He came. He saved. 

Ah, how promising it all sounds! But how quickly the words of Isaiah seem to be hushed. When I looked back on a Christmas sermon from a couple of years ago, guess what? With the exception of the virus, the same matters of racism, politics, and natural disasters were issues back then! So I ask you this: with all of our technology, our advancements, with all of our progress… is the world getting better? Is it really getting brighter? Or is it as dark as it’s ever been? Isaiah tells us a light a great light has dawned, so why does it still seem… so dark?

It seems so dark because, well, it is dark. And what’s more? It’s going to stay dark. But friends, don’t be discouraged, for the darkness also allows us to see the light! Think about the only purpose darkness serves: it’s dark when we’re sleeping. When we’re not functioning. When we’re not active. When we’re not living and moving and existing. But when we’re up and awake, when we’re living and active, darkness has no place in our lives. All it does is showcase the light. We turn on lights in a dark room for the purpose of making it light. And, even when we turn off the lights to make it dark, why do we do it – to better see some sort of light. The movie theater is dark to better highlight the light on the screen. We limit light pollution and want a it dark at night for what – to better see the light beaming from the stars in the galaxy light years away. So darkness always showcases the light – never the other way around. 

But we have to be aware, because when we allow the light to be dimmed, we can get too used to the darkness. Think of how your eyes need to adjust when you turn the lights off in the house at night to go to bed. Initially everything is pitch black, but after a few minutes your eyes adjust and you can start to make out shapes and see things with enough familiarity to avoid injuring yourself. You get by. You learn to adapt to the darkness.

Sadly, Christmas can be like that for many of us as Christians. The light shines. We go to church. We celebrate Jesus. But then the light dims after December 25th, and we go back to being in the dark. Our eyes adjust to it again. We get used to it. We even slip into worldly ways with such ease that we don’t even notice how dim it has gradually become again. We live like the rest of the world and rather than letting our light shine, we fit right in with the darkness. And then? Then we wonder why the world seems so dark. It’s because we’ve allowed ourselves to adjust to it once again, instead of letting the light of Christ shine brightly in our lives all year long. 

So what is our solution? We just avoid talking about the darkness altogether. Pretend it doesn’t exist (as if avoiding any problem EVER made it go away!). Or, we manufacture our own light. We focus on positive things. Send good vibes. Think good thoughts. Uplift others. But have you not figured out yet that those solutions don’t really cut it? We can avoid talking about the darkness I mentioned in the beginning. We can avoid talking about the darkness of our own sin, but doing so and thinking we can deal with the darkness by avoiding it doesn’t provide us with any light. And our manufactured light doesn’t do the trick, either. It it did, then all the “love and light” being sent all over the world should see depression and suicide decline, right? But the exact opposite is happening! Our fabricated lights don’t cut it. They aren’t a viable solution. Instead, we look to the ONLY light that shines in the darkness. We look to Jesus.

See him as Isaiah described: “For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace” (v.6). Do you still struggle to see the light? Ah, then it can only be because you have yet to embrace his place in your life. For you know that the titles Isaiah applies to Jesus are more than just a list of labels to fill the front of Christmas cards and seasonal art, right? These names reveal to us the qualities of the Savior we celebrate at Christmas! They tell us who he is and what he is capable of and why his birth brought brightness into this dark world!

But you will not likely see that light until you match the first part of verse 6 with all the titles in the second part. Isaiah says he was born “to us,” given “to us.” To you and me. That means he is your Wonderful Counselor, your Mighty God, your Everlasting Father, your Prince of Peace. If you really want his light in your life, then make everything that he is yours. 

See him as your Wonderful Counselor. There’s no shame in acknowledging that we can benefit from a counselor, but what do we gain when we have the best Counselor possible and don’t use him? I will say that hands down, you will not find better counsel and advice for your life than in here (Bible). But it’s of no use to you if you don’t know about it, learn it, and then apply it. And the other benefit of having a Counselor? You can talk to him. Anytime. He is always listening. You have emotional struggles? Need to sort through your thoughts? Take them to your Wonderful Counselor and see how his light brightens the darkness.

Don’t stop there. See him as your Mighty God. What impossible, insurmountable challenge are you facing in life right now? Have you tapped the strength of your Mighty God? He delights in making the impossible possible! In verse four Isaiah referred to the victorious rout God brought against Midian, a battle in which God whittled down his own army from tens of thousands of soldiers to several hundred and still brought about a decisive victory through such an impossibly small group of men! Oh, and there is the matter of making a virgin into a mother, and raising the dead to life, and the list goes on. Do you think this Mighty God may just be able to show his strength in your own life if you can set aside your pride that needs to fix everything yourself and in humility let him be the Mighty God he claims to be?

Don’t stop there. See him as your Everlasting Father. Not everyone has had the blessing of having a compassionate father in their lives, and for some the picture of a father brings up nothing but negative, painful emotions. But Christmas put flesh and blood on another Father, the One who is himself everlasting, and who will love you with an everlasting love. He is a Father who protects and provides and who will never leave us in the dark, assurances which no earthly father could ever give us. He is more than just a Father, more than the Father; he is your Everlasting Father.

Don’t stop there. See him also as your Prince of Peace. In fact, although it’s the last title listed, I would encourage you to start with this one. It’s everything, and it beautifully summarizes why Jesus Christ was born, and why Jesus Christ matters to you. He came to be your Prince of Peace. Let’s consider why this matters. What is the worst possible thing you could ever do at work? What is the most unforgivable wrong you could ever do to your spouse? What is the most devastating thing you could ever do to your kids? Now imagine you’ve done that. More than anything else in the world, what would you crave to hear from the one you have wronged? Would there be anything more impactful than to hear that person say, “It’s OK. I forgive you”? 

Now let’s step away from the hypotheticals into reality. That is exactly why Jesus Christ was born into this world – so that he, the Prince of Peace, could assure you that for every worst possible thing you’ve ever done, he says, “It’s OK. I forgive you.” This, friends, is not wishful thinking. This is not movie magic. This is not hypothetical. This is real – as real as the birth of Jesus Christ. It’s as real as the holy life he lived in your place and credits to you by faith. It’s as real as the death he came to die in your place to pay the price for every single sin. It’s as real as his resurrection from the dead to assure us that our own death isn’t permanent. This is real peace the world simply cannot give, but which the Prince of Peace gives freely to all who believe. He came into this dark mess to bring the radiant light of forgiveness for all. You are at peace. 

When everything that Jesus is becomes yours, you start to see the light shining. A little bit at first. Then more. Then brighter. Then it happens that the light beams so brightly in your life that you hardly notice the darkness anymore. Oh, it’s still there alright, and always will be until Jesus returns on the Last Day; but you notice it less because you see him more. May he fill your Christmas and your new year – no matter how dark – with his wonderful life-changing light! Take to heart the promise the Christ-child himself spoke later as an adult: “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life” (John 8:12). Merry Christmas!