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For Worship to Be About Jesus

Heavenly Father,
Sundays are sacred. As believers gather in Christian churches all over the world on this day for worship, edify them through the preaching of your Word. Remind both preachers and those listening that we are called the Christian Church because Christ is central to all that we are and do. Let that be clearly reflected and understood in preaching and worship. While we enjoy freedom and flexibility in so many ways because of the gospel, guard all believers at all times against being willing to compromise anything that may call Christ into question. On Jesus and his saving work, your Church is a tower of strength. Without him, it crumbles to pieces. Let it stand forever, as you have promised, and keep us faithful to our promise to remain true to you. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Gather Others to Your Church

God of Grace,
Your Church is for everyone. However, there are still so many souls outside of Christianity who are blinded by the evil one and are in danger of being eternally lost. Some are blind because they are simply unaware of all that you have done to save. Others are blind because they have been deceived by false religions and counterfeit gods. Still others stand as bitter enemies of the Christian faith. Yet these all have this in common: you alone bring them unparalleled peace that is not accessible and cannot be appreciated apart from Jesus Christ. Flex your mighty right arm of salvation, unleash your Holy Spirit, and dislodge and dismantle every obstruction that is currently cutting off so many from the lifeline of faith in Jesus. Let the gospel overpower all opposition and succeed in rescuing many more souls into the safety and sanctuary of your Church. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

Christians Pursue God’s Presence

(Exodus 33:12-23)

They both have tails. They each have four legs. They’re the same color. Are you able to tell the difference between a mouse and an elephant? While they do have some similarities, if provided with a picture of a mouse and a picture of an elephant, I am quite confident that we would have had a 100% success rate in correctly identifying the mouse picture and the elephant picture. 

Could we all do the same with two fingerprints? While every single fingerprint is unique, they tend to look very similar, don’t they? And, especially without the aid of any magnification, if we were provided with two actual-size images of unique fingerprints, I don’t have the same level of confidence that we’d all be able to tell the two apart. 

When it comes to being a Christian, which category do you fall into? Do you, like two fingerprints, look almost indistinguishable from everyone else in the world who is not a Christian? Does your life mirror that of an unbeliever so that an objective observer would struggle to determine if there’s any difference between the two of you? Or, is the difference so clear, so obvious to others, that it’s like comparing a mouse to an elephant – distinguishing one from the other is insultingly easy? 

If right now you’d identify more with the fingerprint group than the mouse/elephant group, you’re not alone. Many believers are right there with you. And many unbelievers would be all too happy to agree with you and validate your assessment. After all, one of the top reasons unbelievers are turned off by Christianity is that they claim to see virtually no difference between themselves and their believing friends or acquaintances. But if right now you’d identify more with the fingerprint group than the mouse/elephant group, let’s be willing to put in the work together toward changing that as we focus on What Makes Christians Different? 

To do that, we have to guard against immediately slipping into a behavioral mindset. Though it might sound like it, we’re not just talking about external behavior modification. What makes Christians different doesn’t start with what they do; it starts with who they are… and more to the point, who makes us that way. So, to figure out what makes us different, we look first not to our own character, but to the cross.

The cross wasn’t even a thing yet at the time Moses was leading his people out of Egypt into the promised land. Yet, ironically, Moses knew from first-hand experience exactly what Jesus was describing when he would later speak about picking up one’s cross and following him. Moses had a heavy cross to bear, and it came in the shape of the Israelites. What’s more, Moses knew full well that such a cross was beyond his own ability to bear. He needed help. He couldn’t do it alone. He needed the promise of God’s presence.

Let’s back up just a bit. Where we find ourselves dropped right into the 33rd chapter of the book of Exodus, God’s people, the Israelites, were on the front end of their exodus out of slavery in Egypt and into the wilderness. To establish their priorities and provide guidance for how his rescued and redeemed people were to be set apart and conduct their lives, God beckoned Moses to join him on Mt. Sinai. There he would relay to Moses his protective command and instruction for his people.

Sadly, their session was cut short as God furiously alerted Moses to the disturbing and potentially devastating behavior that was going on among the Israelites back at camp. Having been influenced by the heathen Egyptians, and having had their request condoned and carried out by Aaron, they began the detestable practice of idol worship. With astonishing haste, they quickly traded in the true God for a golden calf.

The Lord dismissed Moses to head back down the mountain and deal with the Israelites while God himself did everything he could to hold back his rage and not destroy them altogether. As a result of their behavior, God refused to be present among his people as he had been previously, and instead sent an angel in his place. He would no longer personally accompany Israel as they made their way to the promised land. While God still promised to be present with Moses in a special tent they could meet in outside of camp, he would no longer be present among the Israelites.     

In humble confidence, while Moses surely appreciated the personal blessing of being able to meet with the Lord individually, he recognized that if God wasn’t with all of Israel, his leadership would be a lost cause. Moses alone was not up to the task. So he pleaded for God to return his presence among his people. You sense the self-doubt in Moses’ request. “Moses said to the Lord, ‘You have been telling me, “Lead these people,” but you have not let me know whom you will send with me. You have said, “I know you by name and you have found favor with me.” If you are pleased with me, teach me your ways so I may know you and continue to find favor with you. Remember that this nation is your people’” (v.12-13). As he addresses God, it might sound like he’s pushing back or challenging God, but in reality, it’s more like, “What’s wrong with me? What am I not doing right that leaves me feeling as if I’m all on my own here, Lord? What do I need to do for the God who parted the Red Sea and swallowed swarms of soldiers to show up and pave the way for his people?” 

Look at God’s powerful promise to Moses. “My Presence will go with you, and I will give you rest” (v.14). Full stop. That’s not just something; that’s everything! God promised to personally accompany Moses and ease his burden with real rest.

Consider the storyline of any movie or book involving an inexperienced main character who chooses to embark on a necessary journey. There is always a more experienced guide or expert that the main character connects with before departing. It’s one thing for that character to speak favorably about the main character’s journey and maybe even express confidence in the successful outcome, but it’s another thing for that experienced guide or expert to actually personally go along on the adventure and accompany the main character; to be present. 

Moses’ response demonstrated that he realized the weight behind God’s promise to be present with him. “Then Moses said to him, ‘If your Presence does not go with us, do not send us up from here. How will anyone know that you are pleased with me and with your people unless you go with us? What else will distinguish me and your people from all the other people on the face of the earth?’” (v.15-16). What did Moses point to as the distinguishing marker between God’s people and everyone else on earth? Hint: it wasn’t their external behavior. It wasn’t their grumbling and complaining or lack thereof. It wasn’t how magnificent and impressive their worship or their offerings were. He pointed to God’s presence as the distinguishing mark between God’s people and the rest of the world. 

As we take Moses’ dialogue with God to heart, we have the answer we need to the question of what makes Christians different. We answer that question with another: “What else will distinguish me and your people from all the other people on the face of the earth?” (v.16b). The implied answer to Moses’ rhetorical question was God’s presence. 

Where God is not present, everything looks the same. It is all a world washed in the grays of self-centeredness, violence, and immorality. Where God and his light are not present, there is darkness and gloom. Where God is not present, there is an empty meaninglessness. 

You know this in your own life, don’t you? Sin looks harmless enough, but it always ushers in the looming clouds of guilt and shame. When we give in to the temptation to distance ourselves from the light and explore the darkness, when has it ever ended well? Just as the lion cub, Simba, the main character in The Lion King, found himself unnecessarily in trouble when he ignored his father’s warning and ventured into the shadow lands, the place the light does not touch, so we go against better judgment when we imagine God hiding or withholding something from us when we’re so close to him. We cluelessly venture away from him.

How do we avoid this repeated trouble? We continue to pursue God’s presence. And where do we find it? Where is God present? He is wherever his Word is at work in the hearts and lives of his people. The same Jesus who invites us to receive his rest in the Gospel of Matthew explained, “For where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them” (Mt. 18:20). And what does it mean to gather in his name? We don’t have God’s name – his reputation and all that we know about him – apart from or without the Word. If we don’t have the Word, we don’t have God’s presence. His Word is where he reveals himself. 

Only in his presence do we find the rest we crave. Not an apathetic laziness that pretends adulting is too hard and chooses to passively ignore our responsibilities. That isn’t rest; it’s more sin, so don’t be surprised when it only drains us more. The rest we crave isn’t found in escaping toward entertainment and avoiding life’s hardships by sticking our heads in the sand. That, too, is sin, when we’re abdicating our Christian calling. The rest we desire isn’t found in a drug-induced high, recreational or otherwise, or a few more drinks to unwind and lighten the load. That’s also sin, when moderation was buried a long time ago by piles of excess. Those things will never provide rest, no matter how long it takes us to figure it out.

The other problem we find ourselves in? While we know where God is present, we prefer to be in the driver’s seat, going where we want, doing what we want, and expect God to be present where we are. But God isn’t present in the way that delivers real rest when we’re at the baseball diamond, on a hike, at the beach, or sleeping in. None of those places provide real rest. But God’s presence does. And since he’s always present where his Word is, where else would we go? 

The Lord revealed his presence to Moses in a unique way. He hid Moses in a rock cleft and passed by with his glory for Moses to witness. The only condition was that the most Moses could witness was God’s back, not his front or his face, as Moses would not have been able to withstand the splendor of God’s glory to the fullest. Just as we don’t look directly at the sun unless we want to go blind, no fallen sinner could possibly stand to see the full expression of God’s glorious presence. 

Nevertheless, God reveals his presence to us in a unique, albeit less showy, way. His Word. Sung. Proclaimed. Taught. Digested. Studied. Memorized. His Supper. Received. Refreshed. Baptism. Remembered. Relished. God’s presence is where his Word is at work, and where his Word is at work, we find rest. 

This is what makes Christians different: we pursue God’s presence, because we know and believe that there we will find rest. Every time. Without fail. So maybe today, this month, this series, is an invitation to you. An invitation to stop negotiating with yourself. To stop compromising. An invitation to re-prioritize being in God’s presence, in God’s Word, in God’s house. Isn’t that really kind of an essential step in what makes Christians different – where we spend Sunday morning? If we can’t even commit to that, why would we expect there to be any other evidence in our lives that we’re different from the rest of the world? Come into God’s presence. Weekly. Not only will that activity make you different from the rest of the world, but it will better center you on what God has done for you in Jesus to make you different, all while graciously providing you with unrivaled rest for your soul.

DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Be More Respectful of Others

Humble Savior,
Teach us to respect others. As our society continues to encourage and celebrate individualism and the importance of being true to oneself, the collective good often suffers. A me-centric worldview doesn’t see the need or value of respecting others. So it shouldn’t surprise us to see children disrespect their parents. We don’t respect the opposite sex. We don’t respect those in uniform dedicated to protecting and serving. We don’t respect the government or those in authority. We don’t respect the elderly, but often treat them as an inconvenience or a burden. Respect and self-centeredness can’t coexist. 

So humble us. Forgive our selfish tendencies. Restore respect to our society, starting with me. Lead me to speak well of others and give honor where it is due. Give me Jesus’ heart and attitude, seeking to put others first, assuming the best of them, and humbly elevating the greater good above my own self-serving interests.  

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For New Believers

Holy Spirit,
We rejoice along with the angels in heaven every time a soul is snatched from the darkness of unbelief and brought into the wonderful light of salvation through faith in Jesus! Thank you for the gift of faith that you plant in the hearts of believers through your Word. Continue to nurture the faith of new believers so that the roots of their faith run deep. We know how tirelessly the evil one schemes to attack new believers and cause as much damage as possible to uproot their faith. Protect them with the armor of God. Lead them into the safety and solidarity of a local church that upholds your Word as its greatest treasure and faithfully adheres to it. Surround new Christians with mature brothers and sisters in Christ who seek to actively disciple them. Mature them in their faith so that they are equipped to glorify you in all that they do, and include them in the church’s disciple-making mission so that they can experience first-hand the joy of being used by you to be a part of seeing other souls saved.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Believers to Live in the Joy of Salvation

Spirit of Joy,
You alone know the complete number of Christians in the world at any given moment, for you alone know the heart and whether or not saving faith in the Son is present. Regardless of that number, though, we know from personal experience that the joy of our salvation can so easily become buried by burdens or overshadowed by strife. We must also confess that we even allow salvation’s song to be muted by the mundane routines and responsibilities of daily living. Cleanse and renew us from all indifference to the gift of your saving work on our behalf, and make our hearts glad with the certainty of our salvation. Regardless of our day-to-day circumstances or happenings, let our delight be evident to all, so that others may be drawn to your salvation because of our elation.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Wonderful Variety in Worship

Heavenly Father,
Sundays are sacred. Sundays are for worship. Thank you for the rich variety in worship that you have blessed your Church with for as long as your people have gathered. Never before have Christians had so many resources available to them to incorporate into worship. So many cultures have so much to offer your Church as she worships. Different seasons of the church year invite different themes and moods appropriate for their unique focus. These are reflected in diverse Scripture readings, hymnody, and artistic expression. Tradition and history anchor us to the past, while new and contemporary can provide fresh ways to connect us to the present. Each has its place, provided your Son and his work are central. Grant us patience and discernment as we utilize technology, old and new, always seeking to ensure that you are not lost in the novelty or demeaned by mediocrity. You deserve our best, having served us with your best, so let us use our finest gifts, abilities, and resources to magnify you every time we worship. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Know When to Show Up for Others

Lord God,
As a believer, I recognize the importance of social events and gatherings that provide opportunities to make new connections with others and strengthen existing relationships. This is not only valuable within the body of Christ, but also essential for those outside the Church – so that through believers, they may come to know their Savior and, Lord-willing, come to faith in him. I often struggle with being at peace over when to show up on such occasions and when it is acceptable to sit them out. Sometimes I attend out of a sense of obligation or guilt; other times I feel guilty for not attending and staying home.

Help me sort through the motivations of my heart in such situations. Free me from the burden of guilt that isn’t mine to carry. On the other hand, when I am being selfish or uncaring about others, expose that in me so that I see it and am aware of it. When pride and false assurance compel me to show up because I convince myself that you need someone like me to carry out the relational work that could arise in certain scenarios, let me know it. Guide me to maintain a healthy balance in discerning when it is good and right to attend such social situations, and when it is perfectly OK not to, so that my decisions and management of your gift of time honor you.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Christian Schools

Lord God,
Thank you for the blessing of Christian schools, where students receive so much more than just an exceptional education; they flourish in faith. Through their Christian education, they learn and discover through the lens of faith, seeing the abundance of your goodness all around them. In addition to being prepared to thrive in the workplace and be solid citizens in their community, students grow emotionally and spiritually, finding their identity and purpose in you and your Word. They don’t simply learn lists of how to be better people, but are actually changed by the good news of you being the best for them, and sacrificially giving yourself in death so that they might live – here and eternally.

With that security and faith-fueled confidence, they are well-prepared to navigate the uncertainty of life, bear up under suffering, and find genuine joy in loving you by serving their neighbor. Thank you for those who teach selflessly in Christian schools, for those who support them financially and prayerfully, and for all who entrust their children to Christian schools as partners in providing the best possible education anyone can receive: one rooted in you.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Jesus’ Ascension

Ascended Savior,
On this day of Ascension, forty days after we celebrated your resurrection from the dead on Easter Sunday, we remember and rejoice that you returned to your heavenly throne. You did not abandon your Church, but rather returned to rule over all things on her behalf. You oversee world events so that disaster and catastrophe must bend to your will to serve the good of your people. You utilize even the persecution of your people to build your Church into a magnificent temple of living stones, with you yourself as the Living Cornerstone. From your seat in heaven, you direct and govern the affairs of your Church, using her to bless and save many in this fallen and lost world. Keep the body of the Church faithful to you, its Head, by standing with steadfast hearts and ironclad wills on your Word that endures forever.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen.