DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Heal and Restore Broken Families

Restoring Father,
Sadly, families are not immune to the collateral damage of existing in a fallen, sinful world. I pray for your help and restoration in healing families broken by sin. Where the sin of adultery has ripped husband and wife apart, grant repentance and reconciliation to repair the marriage bond. When abuse of any kind has left family members or children devastated, intervene and bring it to an end. In those cases, also bring about justice for the one responsible and provide any necessary therapy to those harmed by it. Let those families crushed by traumatic death or injury receive counseling and support to help them process and navigate their grieving or loss. No matter what struggle or hardship any family may face, see to it that your grace is always apparent to provide healing and hope. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Healthy Families

Loving Father,
When I consider the blessings that flow into and through healthy families, I marvel at your plans. You have established the institution of marriage as the bedrock upon which the home is built. Through it, you provide husbands and wives to commit to pouring into each other in loving service. Within the family, fathers and mothers work as one to teach and train their children not only life skills, but also eternal life truths by which your Spirit anchors them to you.

As children lovingly obey their parents, they display for society what honor and respect for those in authority look like. When families lovingly serve their neighbors, they model on a small scale how ideal communities function and what a healthy society looks like. Establish strong families, allowing them to serve as a special channel by which your goodness richly flows into the world.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Be Grateful for the Gospel in Worship

Heavenly Father,
Sundays are sacred. It’s so easy for us to take for granted that every time we gather for worship, we hear the good news of the gospel preached and sung. Sadly, that is not necessarily the case, certainly among religious gatherings outside of Christianity, but even within Christianity. The gospel is our lifeline to you, the assurance of our eternal security, and our hope for daily living. Cause preachers to proclaim it confidently and clearly. Keep them from the temptation of thinking that their own cleverness or creativity is necessary for the Word to be effective. The gospel is everything, therefore, let it not be overshadowed by anything. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Awareness to Serve Others

Servant Lord,
Whatever plans I have in mind for today, I submit them to you. When I order my days, I often do so from the viewpoint of what I want to do or need to do. Instead, lead me first to approach each day with consideration for what you would have me do. For you not only know what is best for me on a daily basis, but also how best to use me to bless others through me. Keep my eyes and my heart open every day for opportunities to set aside my own agenda when the needs of others become apparent, and give me a willing spirit to meet those needs however I can. Let me glorify you as I serve as your hands and feet to others.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Appreciate and Care for All Living Things

Creator God,
When you spoke all of creation into existence, you gave mankind the responsibility of overseeing and caring for it. Carrying out this duty diligently is an expression of thanks for giving us such a variety-filled and fascinating world to discover and appreciate. Let us be informed consumers, aware of products and processes that are irresponsibly and unnecessarily harmful to the environment. Give us an appreciation for how you provide for all living things around us as we also care for things like gardens, houseplants, and pets. It is no small thing when you bring to life and sustain it. Neither should we take for granted when you heal or restore anything living that was damaged or unwell. Thank you for this world and for all that lives in it. Help us tend to it well.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Acknowledge Your Generosity (Part 4)

Generous Father,
Your lavish generosity generates my gratitude. When we are on the receiving end of so much goodness and grace, knowing both who you are and who we are, feelings of thankfulness swell up inside us. And that kind of gratitude isn’t content merely to be felt; it must be expressed. Let me seek to match your generous giving by expressing my gratitude generously.

One of the most challenging ways for us put that into practice is through our management of your financial gifts. Move me to grow in the grace of giving through my offerings, to be willing to treat others by covering the bill, and to be eager to give gifts of money to others as a show of appreciation and thanks. 

The giving of our time to others is another meaningful expression of gratitude. Free me from the mindset that the twenty-four hours of each day are mine to use as I selfishly determine, and instead help me see the giving of time as a thank you to others. Our culture is accustomed to everyone being so busy that we don’t have time for one another, so let me use time as a generous thank you to others to show them my appreciation – while doubling as an act of generous gratitude to you, too. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Acknowledge Your Generosity (Part 3)

Generous Father,
You are a Giver – and a generous one at that! Your generosity is clearly seen through the abundant physical and spiritual blessings you shower on us. You are truly good and kind to us!

Your goodness and generosity are highlighted not only by who you are, but also by who we are. We know full well what our unrighteousness and disobedience deserve from you, yet you chose to direct the punishment we deserved on your own holy Son. You haven’t treated us as outcasts or orphans, but have adopted us as your heirs. We are so undeserving, yet you treat us like royalty. We are so unworthy, yet you call us your treasured possessions. Lead us to always deeply appreciate your generosity, not only because you give so much, but also because we are deserving of so little. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Acknowledge Your Generosity (Part 2)

Generous Father,
It isn’t just the size and scale of all of the physical blessings in my life that demonstrate your generosity, but also the wealth of spiritual blessings you pour out on me. Forgiveness is not measured by the ounce, but by the gallon, gushing over me through the words of absolution and in the generous servings of your Supper. The hope I have in you is never day-to-day, but eternal, since you never fail to keep your promises. The words of peace spoken by Jesus to his disciples after he rose still apply to your disciples today, as yours is a peace that cannot be exhausted. There are also the gifts of the Spirit, the fruits of the Spirit, and an endless abundance of other spiritual blessings! Finally, what makes your generous treasury of spiritual gifts so certain is that they all hinge on your limitless grace, lavished freely and fully on me and on all of your followers. Thank you!

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

Undeserved Generosity Generates Unparalleled Gratitude

(2 Corinthians 9:10-15)

Ihope October is not too early to start talking about gift-giving. Yes, reminders about Christmas being only 74 days away or that there are only 9 Fridays left until Christmas cause many to cringe.

But I’m not one of them.

I love Christmas, so without apology I never find that it’s too early to start thinking about gift-giving and all things Christmas. I mean, if we can start cluttering front yards with two-story tall skeletons and inflatable Halloween displays two-plus months ahead of time, then surely starting to think about Christmas gifts can’t be a crime. After all, remember the whole reason behind giving gifts at Christmas was originally intended to be a reflection of THE Gift of all gifts: Jesus.

If you’re wondering what all this talk of gift-giving has to do with anything, it’s really what Paul is writing about in the verses from 2 Corinthians: a gift. The early church in Paul’s day was taking up a special gift offering from congregations for the purpose of being taken to Jerusalem to help those in need. The congregation in Corinth had pledged a generous gift. In chapters 8 and 9 of this second letter, Paul is following up on their commitment and using it as an opportunity to teach about godly giving, previously highlighting biblical principles to guide their giving. Now, he was wrapping up the topic in his letter by encouraging them to follow through with their good intentions and bring their offering to completion. So Paul is talking about a gift.

But one does not have to be a biblical scholar to read between the lines and see that their offering is not the only gift to which Paul is referring in these verses. No, Paul, as he so often does, beautifully weaves together the subject matter of the Corinthians’ gift offering and God’s gift to them in and through Jesus Christ. Any effort to address the topic of gift offerings or giving in the church apart from God’s gift to us in Jesus Christ is not just a missed opportunity; it misses the point altogether. The whole life of the believer – including giving – has the gift of Jesus Christ as its foundation and purpose.

As we being to look closely at Paul’s words, take note of the tone and type of language he uses in this section – words like “increase, enlarge, enriched, generosity, overflowing, surpassing.” Without going any further, just pause on that and consider what conclusions we can draw about the relationship between God and believers.

There are many in the world who have negative opinions about God for a variety of reasons in their own mind. Some of those negative opinions are shaped by traumatic or troubling personal experiences, while others are drawn from faulty conclusions about worldly distress that is either pinned on God or attributed to God’s indifference. Still others were brought up in a religion that portrayed God as an exasperating, impossible-to-please, perfectionist who has us under constant surveillance to ensure that no failure goes unnoticed and that every act of disobedience is tracked. That kind of misunderstanding of God leaves crushed consciences that can end up turning against God in bitterness and resentment because of his impossibly cruel burden of expectation.

But do any of those takes line up with the Paul’s description of God in these verses? What do words like increase, enlarge, enriched, generosity, overflowing, and surpassing actually reveal about God? He is a Giver – and a generous one at that!

God is not about getting and demanding from us, but rather giving and distributing to us all that we need for life – both physically and spiritually. And, it isn’t as if this section of Scripture from 2 Corinthians is some stand alone exception in a Bible that otherwise reveals God’s true colors. These ARE his true colors. This IS how God reveals himself repeatedly throughout the pages of the Bible. God is a Giver – and a generous one at that!

How do we come to this conclusion that God is generous? For starters, we look at the scale or size of what’s given. Imagine yourself in a bind needing to get from point A to point B, but you your car is at the mechanic, so you don’t have a ride. A friend hears about it and offers to cover your Uber or Lyft. Your neighbor, who just yesterday pulled into his driveway with a brand new car that he just drove off the lot, tosses you his keys and says, “Take me car. In fact, why don’t you just keep it – you need it more than I do.” Both individuals were very thoughtful, but which one was more generous?

Now consider everything that belongs to you. In respect to all that you have, has God has merely offered to cover the cost of your ride share, or has he given you the keys to a new car? The answer is obvious, isn’t it? God is a Giver – and a generous one at that!

Can’t the same be said of his spiritual blessings to us? God doesn’t just hand out tiny bite-size free samples of his spiritual blessings, like what you might get walking past the food court in a mall. His spiritual blessings overflow! We aren’t promised little pockets of peace here and there on occasion in our lives, but a 24/7 permanent peace that exists between God and us! And that peace doesn’t come from a forgiveness that God reluctantly issues only if we’re sorry enough or do enough to make up for our wrongs, but a forgiveness that smothers every sin ever associated with us! The joy of our salvation that is tied to that peace and forgiveness can never be stolen away from us by a bad day or when things don’t go our way; rather, that joy is always there to buoy us up no matter how down our circumstance or situation may leave us. The size and scale of these spiritual blessings that God lavishes on us cannot even be measured, for they are without limit and never run out!

What’s more, Paul describes the impact our lives can make through the spiritual goods God delivers to us. God will “enlarge the harvest of your righteousness” (v.10). As you grow in your Christian living, he will bear more and more abundant fruit through you! “You will be enriched in every way so that you can be generous on every occasion” (v.11). Through the Holy Spirit, God’s generosity is always enhancing you and upgrading you to follow in his footsteps as a generous giver.

So we see how generous God is simply from the size or scale of his gifts to us!

But there’s also another way that generosity can be measured. Rather than focusing on the size or scale of the gift that is gvien, we can consider the worthiness… or rather unworthiness of the recipient.

When our jaws drop in response to hearing about a generous gift given to someone, yes, it can be because the gift itself is so substantial, but it can also be because the recipient is so undeserving in our minds. It’s why a presidential pardon from prison can be so powerful – the more serious the crime, the more generous the pardon appears to be. This is also why we balk at nice gifts given to people we think are jerks – it’s not the size of the gift that makes it generous, but rather how undeserving the recipient is. We just can’t help ourselves – we are constantly judging not only the magnitude of the gift, but also the worthiness of the recipient. The gift stands out all the more not just when the gift itself is so great, but also when the person receiving it isn’t.

When I realize that is me, when you realize that is you – it reveals God to be even more generous, doesn’t it? His grace sees to it that not only do we not get the punishment or consequences we deserve, but that we do get so much more than we deserve.

This has a lot to do with why we start out worship with confession and absolution. We are not mandated by God to worship that way. But, doesn’t this matter of God’s generosity and our unworthiness help us understand one of the benefits of it? When we are reminded of the sin that ought to disqualify us from so much as an ounce of God’s grace and forgiveness, it reveals to us every week how good and generous he truly is! We deserve nothing; he withholds nothing. We deserve punishment; he took our punishment. We are completely unworthy; he makes us worthy. 

How generous is God?!? The size and scale of his goodness to us is beyond measure. That he gives anything to undeserving us is beyond comprehension. Only faith can grasp such a truth… and only faith will respond to such generosity with gratitude.

I know it’s not Thanksgiving just yet, but isn’t every day? Do you wake up every single morning, grateful for the abundance of God’s goodness to you in meeting all of your physical needs, and then surpassing all of that with his treasury of spiritual blessings? That kind of gratitude can’t help but express itself. 

How? I suppose I could provide a list for you. But maybe we turn it around. You tell me. How do you normally express thanks to someone who is generous to you? What do you naturally desire to do for them to let them know how grateful you are? Do you treat them differently? Do you send them a thank you card? Do you more readily look for ways to serve or help them? Do you tell others about their generosity? Do you want to do nice things for them? Do you find yourself simply being in a better, positive, pay-it-forward type mindset when on the receiving end of someone’s generosity? 

Can’t we do those same things for God? And, hasn’t he been exponentially more generous to us, given that every need for this life and for the next has been freely provided to us by him?

I can confidently say that if you find being a believer, being a Christian, belonging to God as his treasured possession, merely “ho-hum” or not something that really makes much of a difference in your life, that you’re missing out on freely embracing the privilege and joy of following in God’s footsteps to become more and more of a giver in all areas of life. Talk to others you consider generous in more ways than one. Take note of their attitude and demeanor. They aren’t grumpy. They aren’t begrudging. They aren’t unkind or uncaring. I guarantee you they are none of those things but are the exact opposite.

Now, do you think they are just generous because they’re the type of people who are that way, or are they that way because they’ve allowed God’s grace to lead them to a place of generosity? What Paul is indicating in these verses is that God blesses generous giving in so many positive ways.

But it isn’t the promise of blessings attached to our giving that prompts our generosity. Paul does a beautiful job of wrapping up his teaching on gifts and giving in the last verses. Our gifts are given in response to “the surpassing grace God has given you” (v.14), Paul concluded, “Thanks be to God for his indescribable gift!” (v.15). God is a Giver – and a generous one at that! The size and scale of his gifts to us are and always will be unmatched. And, they are and always will be undeserved.

How can we possibly ever respond? With our own gifts, which express our unparalleled gratitude for his generous giving.

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To Acknowledge Your Generosity (Part 1)

Generous Father,
There is no better example than yours when it comes to demonstrating generosity. I don’t know this only because it’s how you reveal yourself in the Bible; I know it also from personal experience. When I consider the size and scale of all that you provide me with physically, it is clear that you are no miser! Closets that are hardly large enough to hold all of our clothes, multiple fridges and/or freezers, packed pantries, and garages or extra rooms that store away bins upon bins of belongings all serve as testaments of your generosity.

When it comes to shopping for everything we need (to say nothing of what we want!), there are countless brick and mortar stores, matched by a myriad of online stores. We know the frustration of indecision when it comes to having so many options for eating out (or having it delivered right to our door and eating in!). You are unbelievably generous, Lord, and I ask that you never allow me to take your generosity for granted. And, I also ask that you equip me with the wisdom to rightly use and manage all that you abundantly provide.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen.