DAILY PRAYERS FOR GUYS

To Give My Best

Dear Lord,
Whatever tasks I have before me today, help me to accomplish them well. While certain obligations may carry more significance than others, everything I do is an act of worship, an opportunity to give my best as a thank you for your never-ending goodness.

For that reason, help me to avoid settling for mediocrity in areas in which I can do better or even excel. Keep me from a “good enough” attitude when a little more time or effort would improve the quality of whatever I am offering or accomplishing. When I give my best not just in the big things, but the little things as well, I reflect your worth to me. As I serve others, remind me that I am serving you, and you always deserve my best.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Faithful Follow Through

As another week begins, there are always tasks to accomplish and to-do lists to check off. Whether big or small, it can often be a challenge to follow through with my responsibilities and commitments. When my thoughts gravitate toward procrastination, replace them with the drive to get things done. Help me finish what I start and not start things I can’t finish. Keep me from spinning a narrative in my own head that attempts to excuse or soften my lack of follow through. Instead, let me be honest and real with myself regarding what I can and cannot take on and accomplish. Make me disciplined in what matters most, especially anything that fosters my spiritual growth. Give me the dedication of Jesus, which he demonstrated when he resolutely followed through with every detail necessary for my salvation. 

In his name I pray. Amen. 

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To Bless Gospel Preaching

Lord of the Church,
Sundays are sacred. On no other day do so many Christians gather together at once to be served the soul-food of the gospel. Since the gospel – the good news of salvation that is ours through faith in Jesus – not only brings us to faith, but also keeps us in the faith, see that it is clearly preached and taught. Grant preachers the clarity not only to be understood, but also to avoid being misunderstood when it comes to the good news.

Remove all barriers of unclear language, confusing illustrations, unrelated storytelling, and anything else that might obscure the gospel. Spur preachers on through the power of your gospel, so that they are energized and excited to point their hearers to Jesus, and worshipers are spared from lazy and lifeless preaching. Let the good news predominate in all worship everywhere, so that the body of Christ may be built up in faith and well-equipped for Christian living. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Husbands

Lord and Savior,
When you willingly endured not only the cross, but also the ridicule, the abuse, and the punishment that preceded it, you showed us what sacrifice looks like. So when you call husbands to love their wives sacrificially, as you loved the church and gave yourself up for her, we have a standard for which to strive. 

Raise up husbands to not only speak lovingly to their wives, but to show it by their actions. Move them to meet their needs. Lead them to provide safety and security. Help them to foster a relationship with their wives that is open and honest, where struggles can be shared and successes celebrated. Let them find joy in being present and delight in connecting with their wives on a deeper level. Bless their intimacy and let their wives be for them the standard of beauty and attraction. Build them up as spiritual examples, making the most of every opportunity to model repentance and extend grace to others. Grant them unwavering trust in you and joy in serving their wives fully. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For My Freedom in Christ

Loving Redeemer,
Through your saving work, you have freed us from the eternal consequences of sin, the dreaded fear of death, and the stranglehold of Satan. We are no longer helpless slaves resigned to a life of servitude to sin. We are free!

Instill in me the daily determination simply to bask in the joy of the freedom you won for me. But don’t stop there. Lead me to use the very freedom you gave me as a means by which I can show my gratitude. I am free to speak to you in prayer and to ponder the promises of your Word. I am free to celebrate the freedom I share with other believers every week in worship. I am free to find genuine purpose, satisfaction, and fulfillment in helping and serving other people according to their needs. I am free to generously support kingdom work financially as you enable me to. I am free to point others to your saving work on their behalf. I am free, and I love the freedom you gave me – thank you!

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For the Blessing of Struggles

Almighty God,
Thank you for struggles. Though I don’t often anticipate ahead of time the good that you are able to bring through them, it becomes clearer as I reflect on them afterward. Through difficulties you keep me humble and lead me to look to and lean on you more. In dealing with challenges, you help me to notice and appreciate the support system you have placed all around me. When I am faced with adversity, it teaches me perseverance and resilience, forcing me to stretch outside my comfort zone or grow beyond what I thought was possible. Although my struggles may feel monumental while in the thick of them, they also put into perspective how resolutely your Son endured so much more on my behalf. Thank you that he endured all that he did, all for me. Give me your strength to keep on enduring as well. 

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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For Mission Work

Lord of the Harvest,
Thank you for instilling in so many people, pastors, and congregations a passion for reaching the lost and a zeal for mission work. Continue to fan into flame the desire to sow the seeds of the gospel so that you might produce a rich harvest through it. Equip believers with the tools and the trust to personally carry out your Great Commission in their individual lives. Give wisdom and guidance to those making difficult decisions that involve planting churches or closing church doors for the purpose of extending your kingdom. Make them aware of and sensitive to the souls affected by such decisions. At the same time, open the eyes of your people to see things from a kingdom perspective rather than the perspective of personal preference, which can sometimes stifle progress in advancing the gospel. Provide overflowing support through generous gifts that allow mission work at home and abroad to expand, pointing more souls to their Savior.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

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To Be Present

Omnipresent Lord,
Since you are not bound by physical limitations or boundaries, the promise of your presence by my side at all times is a promise that can be trusted. It provides me with comfort in any situation and confidence in carrying out what you have called me to do and to be.

I, on the other hand, can only be in one place at a time. Therefore, I pray that you make me more aware of my surroundings. Rather than becoming so easily distracted by one thing or another, help me to be present and in the moment. I don’t want others to perceive me to be too busy for them or disinterested in their story. Remind me to slow down and take time to embrace the rhythms of each day’s routine and the various seasons of my life. I want to give myself fully to you and to others, not withholding any gifts or characteristics unique to me that could be a blessing to others. Each one of us is gifted 24 hours every day to manage in a way that reflects our gratitude. Help me to make the most of that time by fully appreciating it over the course of each and every day.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen. 

Following Together

(Numbers 11:1-29)

“You’re not together!” If you’re sitting in a room of instrumentalists playing a certain musical piece and you here those words, it probably means not everyone is playing at the same tempo, which throws off the musical piece considerably. A coach yelling those words to his team is lamenting the lack of teamwork as players are too focused on their personal stats or showcasing their individual skills instead of putting the team first.

As God looks over his church, he might say the same thing as he watches Satan isolate believers and pull off one successful attack after another. So we want to see that our “followership” of Jesus is something that is best carried out together. Yes, we know we are never alone because of God’s promise to be with us to the very end of the age, but let’s also understand that many times God shows up and keeps that promise through fellow believers as we follow Jesus together.

It doesn’t sound like “together” is the word Moses would have used to describe how he was feeling in Numbers 11. Leadership is often lonely, and that loneliness was being exacerbated by all of the constant griping of God’s people. Take note of the effect of all the grumbling and complaining. It is not harmless! “The Lord became exceedingly angry, and Moses was troubled” (v.10).

It ought to be enough for us to see how the Lord feels about it. Complaining is never really about what we’re lacking physically as much as it is a spiritual issue. What it shows to be lacking spiritually is gratitude for what God has given us. We complain when we forget that 1) we deserve nothing from God and 2) we aren’t getting the consequences we actually deserve from God. But when we remember those things, are we in a place of gratitude instead of grumbling. Oh, and if you aren’t sure how God really feels about complaining, check out the first three verses at the beginning of this chapter to see how God had just finished his own little pyrotechnic show to demonstrate how he feels about ingratitude!

But we see that God wasn’t the only one affected by Israel’s complaining; it troubled Moses, too. How much? It’s not hard to determine how heavily it weighed on him when we hear Moses’ emotional plea to God. He was fed up and beat down by all the complaining, so much so that he actually asked God to mercifully end his life instead of having to keep dealing with it all!

This is not Moses joking around with God while rolling his eyes at those slow-to-learn Israelites! This is Moses, struggling with a degree of depression that honestly considered dying as the preferred option to having to continue putting up with incessant ingratitude. So the next time you think your grumbling and complaining are no big deal, remember this account. Consider how much it sets God off in anger, but also how much damage it does to those around you.

If that was the only takeaway from this account that we’d leave with, we’d all still be better off for it. But that isn’t even the most memorable part. No, that comes in how God chooses to respond. God delights in deliverance, and he often reveals that not only by not punishing us in ways that we’d actually deserve, but in giving us more than we even complained about or asked for!

God’s solution for Moses might at first seem odd to us. He directed Moses to round up seventy of the leaders from camp and have them gather at the place where God interacted with his leaders in camp, at the tent of meeting. Once there, God came directly to Moses and “he took some of the power of the Spirit that was on him and put it on the seventy elders. When the Spirit rested on them, they prophesied–but did not do so again” (v.25). The people complained about the lack of variety they had in their diet, and God did them even better: he fed them his Spirit, pouring out his Word on his people through prophecy.  

Still today God provides for his people by feeding them with his Word. This is how he deals with his people in the richest way – through his Word. There is no greater gift that can be given. There is no greater gift that can be received.

Yet how do we often receive it? With the same ingratitude that got the Israelites in trouble. We complain. “Just the Word? Just worship? Just passages and promises in a book? Is that it, God? I’d actually appreciate it more if you fixed my health issues. Can’t you find me the one I get to spend my life with instead? Just provide the financial cushion to pay my bills and get ahead. Make my friends like me. Give me a better job. Can’t I have a bigger house?” 

Just like the Israelites, we forget where we came from. They remembered the Egyptian food being flavorful and savory, while forgetting the cost that came with it: labor and slavery. We take for granted how good we have it as God’s chosen people, forgetting how lost we were before him. How easily we forget that we were once heading for the ugly eternal torment waiting for all who are not in Christ Jesus! Distracted and disoriented by our disillusion, we don’t want more of the Word, but more of the world. 

But when dealing with us through his Word, God is dealing with us in the richest way possible. There is no greater gift that can be given. Though the promises revealed through this Word are free and for everyone, they came at a great cost to God, who could only offer them for the price of his only Son. Woven together with the gift of his Son are countless other gifts free for the taking: serenity that flows from peace with God, uplifting hope anchored to an absolutely certain future, unconditional love lavished on us without limit, full forgiveness for all wrongs – past, present, and future, no matter how great or small – that cannot be found elsewhere.

This is but a small sample size of the enduring gifts God showers on us through his Word! That’s why this Word is preached and taught in churches, so that those gifts can be accessible all day long, every day, to everyone who has it. This is how God deals with his people in the richest way possible – through his Word.

And he does so in abundance! It wasn’t just the seventy elders who received the Spirit; there were two more who hadn’t shown up at the tent of meeting who were running about the camp prophesying here, there, and everywhere.

Since that wasn’t part of the plan God had revealed, others took issue with it and came to Moses to alert him. “A young man ran and told Moses, ‘Eldad and Medad are prophesying in the camp.’ Joshua son of Nun, who had been Moses’ aide since youth, spoke up and said, ‘Moses, my lord, stop them!’” (v.27-28). Who were these rogue individuals and what were they doing? 

As it turned out, they were doing exactly what God wanted them to do. Moses, rather than being insecurely threatened by them, had the kind of response we’d expect of the man referred to in the Bible as the most humble man on earth. “But Moses replied, “Are you jealous for my sake? I wish that all the Lord’s people were prophets and that the Lord would put his Spirit on them!” (v.29). He wasn’t jealous or worried at all, but rather thrilled to see the Holy Spirit at work in such a powerful and visible way!

Quite a turnaround from the same individual who just a short time ago had been pleading for God to mercifully end his life rather than have to continue putting up with all the complaining! Here he was rejoicing at how God had come to his aid by surrounding him with so many Spirit-filled followers. Moses wasn’t alone. 

Notice how God deals with his people. He didn’t just give his people a gift far greater than food when he gave them his Word, prophesied in a special way. He also gave Moses hope – a reminder that he wasn’t alone in leading God’s people. God revealed his intention of providing help for Moses in anointing the seventy: “They will share the burden of the people with you so that you will not have to carry it alone” (v.17). God’s people were served with his Word. Moses was uplifted and encouraged.

Oh, and God wasn’t done just yet. He also gave them the meat they were complaining about… and not in miserly fashion! God was going to provide for them, and then some, all while teaching them a lesson in the process. He told Moses to pass this along to the Israelites: “Consecrate yourselves in preparation for tomorrow, when you will eat meat. The Lord heard you when you wailed, ‘If only we had meat to eat! We were better off in Egypt!’ Now the Lord will give you meat, and you will eat it. You will not eat it for just one day, or two days, or five, ten or twenty days, but for a whole month—until it comes out of your nostrils and you loathe it—because you have rejected the Lord, who is among you, and have wailed before him, saying, ‘Why did we ever leave Egypt?’” (v.18-20). What a reminder to be careful of what you complain about!

Moses was feeling lonely. God intervened in multiple ways to address the complaining while also providing for his people. For Moses, God provided a meaningful reminder that he wasn’t serving the Lord alone. As the Lord led them all through the wilderness to the land he had promised them, they followed together. 

I wouldn’t hold my breath expecting God to take the same approach in reminding you that you aren’t alone, but you don’t have to look very far to see that you’re never really following Jesus alone. Look around and see those gathered together in worship on a Sunday morning. One of the goals in the congregation I serve is carried out through the ministry of our school: we share with parents the same goal of helping our children follow their Savior together. That goal is reflected in the stated purpose of our school: “Shepherd of the Hills Lutheran School strives to educate students while developing the God-given talents of the total student – spiritually, intellectually, physically, and emotionally – in a caring Christ-centered community.” That last phrase, “Christ-centered community,” is a reminder that we are following Jesus together. 

That blessing extends beyond the walls of the classroom and into our congregation. Many know the blessing of being a part of a local congregation, a group of fellow followers walking in Jesus’ footsteps together. If you don’t, know that you are welcome to be a part of our family of believers so that you are well aware that you never follow Jesus alone, but always together, with others who rejoice in having been bought and paid for by the blood of Jesus our Savior.

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Thank You for Your Patience

Patient Father,
How exhausting it must be for you to look on us and see how slow we are to grow in our faith and sanctified living. Your patience with us is unrivaled! Thank you for not writing me off or giving up on me.

Do not let me mistake your patience for permission, however. I never want to take your patience for granted or presume that because you haven’t turned your back on me, it doesn’t really matter how I live. Instead, I pray that your patience prompts my desire to please you even more in every way. May the grace that you continually grant me serve to spur on my good deeds and shape my sanctification. Pass a rich measure of your patience along to me as well, that I might show the same lenience to others that you extend to me.

In Jesus’ name I pray. Amen.