{"id":1162,"date":"2023-09-07T14:17:48","date_gmt":"2023-09-07T21:17:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/1thingmatters.com\/?p=1162"},"modified":"2023-09-07T14:17:48","modified_gmt":"2023-09-07T21:17:48","slug":"a-self-church","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/1thingmatters.com\/?p=1162","title":{"rendered":"A Self< Church"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

(Matthew 16:21-26)<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The boss just laid out the plan for the next project at work. The goal was clearly communicated and comprehended so that everyone knew what they were trying to accomplish. All departments understood their specific roles in the project. Each individual team member was provided with the direction needed to help their department succeed and contribute toward achieving success in the specific effort. So it came as a bit of a shock when, after the boss had finished his presentation, one particular employee stood up and simply said, \u201cYeah, we\u2019re not going to be doing this. This isn\u2019t going to happen. Not on my watch.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

How long do you suppose that employee would remain with the company? Not long at all!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jesus could have done much more than just fire Peter for his defiant remark. In his Gospel account of the incident, Matthew records for us what had caused Peter to feel compelled to take Jesus to task: \u201cFrom that time on Jesus began to explain to his disciples that he must go to Jerusalem\u00a0and suffer many things\u00a0at the hands of the elders, the chief priests and the teachers of the law,\u00a0and that he must be killed\u00a0and on the third day\u00a0be raised to life\u201d (v.21)<\/em><\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Peter had only a short time ago confessed that he knew Jesus was the One, the Messiah that God had promised repeatedly throughout history. However, Jesus\u2019 explanation of how he would be carrying out his work didn\u2019t align with the political aspirations Peter had for the Messiah. As Peter saw it, Jesus\u2019 suffering and death were not part of his plan, so he had to take drastic measures. \u201cPeter took him aside and began to rebuke him. \u2018Never, Lord!\u2019 he said. \u2018This shall never happen to you!\u2019\u201d (v.22)<\/em><\/strong>.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019re quite used to Peter putting his foot in his mouth. It\u2019s easy to understand why he wouldn\u2019t want to stand by and approve of a plan that involved the suffering and death of his Jesus. He had a heart, after all. He cared about Jesus. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But his objection was actually much more selfish – sinister even. In fact, as Jesus\u2019 response indicated, it was downright satanic. \u201cJesus turned and said to Peter,\u00a0‘Get behind me, Satan!\u00a0You are a stumbling block to me; you do not have in mind the concerns of God, but merely human concerns\u2019\u201d (v.23)<\/em><\/strong>.\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whoa! Isn\u2019t that going a bit farther than necessary? Is Jesus doing one of those hyperbole things where he uses an over-the-top extreme to make his point? You hear people joke about temptation from others (“C’mon, just have one more piece of dessert – it’s sooooooo good!”) with a, \u201cGet behind me, Satan,\u201d but Jesus was not at all joking. He was deadly serious.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because so is Satan. Peter\u2019s rebuttal to Jesus\u2019 teaching was not just a matter of misguided concern a guy had for his friend. It wasn\u2019t because he had a better plan in mind (as if there could have been one!). Rather, it was an attempt on the part of Satan to thwart God\u2019s plan of salvation.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jesus had made it clear that these things (his suffering, death, and resurrection) \u201cmust\u201d (v.21) <\/em><\/strong>happen. They had to. This was the plan God had in mind to carry out the substitutionary work salvation required. The perfect Lamb, Jesus Christ, had to be offered up as the only sacrifice that could serve as payment for sin. Jesus had <\/em>to suffer and die. \u201cIt must<\/em> be this way,\u201d he told his disciples.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So also today, anything that opposes the good news of the gospel – anything at all – comes from the evil one. There is no harmless indifference to the gospel. There are no alternative plans or paths that might work out. There are no religions or false gods that could provide forgiveness and eternal life. There was and there is no other way to a right relationship with God than through the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus. Anything else – anything at all – comes from the evil one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The scariest part of all of this? Look what drove Peter\u2019s objection: \u201chuman concerns.\u201d<\/em><\/strong> It wasn\u2019t some deep theological truth that Peter had uncovered that prompted him to rebuke Jesus; it was his own ideas about who Jesus was supposed to be and how he was supposed to proceed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Peter wasn\u2019t concerned about God\u2019s plans. Peter wasn\u2019t concerned about Jesus\u2019 plans. Peter wasn\u2019t concerned about the other disciples\u2019 plans. No, Peter was concerned about Peter\u2019s plans, and Peter\u2019s plans only.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Does that same selfish concern that each and every one of us is capable of help you grasp why Jesus explained discipleship the way he did? \u201cThen Jesus said to his disciples,\u00a0\u2018Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me\u2019\u201d (v.24)<\/em><\/strong>. \u201cYou want to be my disciple? You want to follow me? OK, first things, first, we have to get you out of the way. We have to get self out of the picture, or he\u2019ll only serve to provide a platform for the devil to go to work. And the only way to do that is for you to deny the most difficult person on the planet to deny: yourself.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I was recently reminded of why this is the most challenging thing of all for us to do by a quote from a little book, What\u2019s Big Starts Small<\/a>. <\/em>In it, the author warns about why pride can be so destructive to the growth of our faith. He writes, \u201cBut pride offers an objection that makes you the exception\u201d (p.42). That is just another way of saying that self is an expert at pretending it has permission for whatever it wants. \u201cWhat is wrong for you is clear as day, but<\/strong> here\u2019s why it isn\u2019t wrong when I do it.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cYes, I got a little angry and lost control, but it was justifiable in light of what the other person did.\u201d \u201cOf course the stay-at-home mom shouldn\u2019t be drinking excessively during the day and putting her kids at risk, but my job is 100 times more stressful and a few drinks every night help me relax.\u201d \u201cThere is no reason for a guy to ever push a girl around, but our relationship is different and her level of disrespect is unacceptable.\u201d \u201cBlatantly walking a full cart out of the store without paying is one thing, but what I\u2019m skimming from the register is just enough to get me by until things get better and of course I’ll pay it all back.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pride – self – makes me the exception. It does the same for you. That\u2019s why Jesus says we must deny it and let it die. \u201cFor whoever wants to save their life\u00a0will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will find it\u201d (v.25).<\/em><\/strong>\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But what about the risk of not looking out for ourselves? If we don’t, who else will? How can we be sure that this practice of denying self is going to work out in the end? If we don\u2019t advocate for ourselves, who else will? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I think you know the answer, but let me try to state it a little bit differently than you\u2019re probably used to hearing it. Here is the bottom line: You cannot care about yourself more than Jesus does.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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You cannot care about yourself more than Jesus does. <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Do you understand? No matter how much you want to buy into the world\u2019s emphasis on the importance of self-care and self-image and self-love and self-esteem and self-discovery and self… etc. – all of that put together into perfect practice will never amount to caring about yourself more than Jesus does.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If that were not true, it would have been you on the cross and not him. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If that were not true, it would have been you condemned for your sin instead of him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If that were not true, he would have allowed you to be abandoned and forsaken by the Father and not him. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But since he bore all of that on himself for you, let there never be any doubt that no one ever has and no one ever will care more about you than Jesus.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So let go of the lie and live free. Shut out the internal pleas to serve self first and everyone else second. Jesus has you covered and now he wants to use you to help make sure everyone else knows they’re covered by him, too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When we deny self, when we set down self, instead of dragging that care and concern with us wherever we go, then we\u2019ve got free hands. With those hands, we find it much easier to pick up the crosses that are all around us.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The cross of patient sacrifice in your strained marriage to a demanding spouse is much lighter when you set down self. The cross that comes in the shape of the extra workload you carry at work for the demeaning co-worker who doesn\u2019t miss the opportunity to poke fun at your faith here and there. The cross of confusion over why God continues to permit the chronic pain that you\u2019ve dealt with for years. The cross of abuse and its long-term effects. The cross of addiction that lingers despite the overall progress. The cross of family members struggling with identity and sexuality. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

These crosses are not light, to be sure, but we are able to bear them much more effectively when we aren\u2019t also carrying around the weight of self.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And, we are able to bear them much more effectively when we realize we never bear them alone. We can be confident of this because we know Jesus\u2019 own answer to his rhetorical question at the close of these verses. Jesus asked, \u201cOr what can anyone give in exchange for their soul?\u201d (v.26)<\/em><\/strong>. Our answer, everyone\u2019s answer, is of course, \u201cNothing.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jesus, though, has a different answer: \u201cEverything.\u201d He literally gave up everything for our souls. \u201cFor you know the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, that though he was rich, yet for your sake he became poor, so that you through his poverty might become rich\u201d (2 Corinthians 8:9). <\/em><\/strong>Only One perfectly denied self. Only One perfectly lost his life. Only Jesus, and Jesus alone is our hope. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Are you worried about what will happen if you cast off the perceived need to look out for yourself above all else? Worry not, for as much as your old self lies to you about looking out for number one, here is the truth we must remember: You cannot possibly care about yourself more than Jesus does. If that, dear friends, is true – and it absolutely is – then you are freed from yourself. Jesus has you covered. Go and be the church he wants, the self< church.\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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